"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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AbsolutBeirut

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One thing that is troubling me is that whenever I am at a public location like a mall or pharmacy and I spot a hot chick, I hesitate to make an approach. I would circle on my ground and then she is gone before I am able to do anything. I have no trouble approaching chicks in the nightime but the ones I find during the day are MUCH more attractive. Please guys advise how I can overcome this fear or point me to literature that helps. I am hating myself for missing out on these opportunities. Like today I was at the service station I spotted a HB9 while ordering dinner and couldnt do anything about it. Couldnt eat my dinner afterwards of how much disgusted I was at myself. If there is one thing I want to achieve in 2008 is the overcome this fear.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What are you..a vampire? You can approach at night but not during the day?

Sounds more like an excuse than fear to me.

Plus don't kill yourself over something so trivial. This is just something you are going to have to get over yourself.
 
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absolutbeirut.. ive been on this forum for a while and i never did the dj boot camp.. and im so fed up with my self also that i am going to full indulge the boot camp, you should start it at the same time with me starting uh... tomorrow! i have that much motivation right now hence being the new year, me wanting to get into better shape than i am and having goals. i am going to post my results day by day in a thread what do ya say? lets do this and become what we dreamed of!
 
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