"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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AbsolutBeirut

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One thing that is troubling me is that whenever I am at a public location like a mall or pharmacy and I spot a hot chick, I hesitate to make an approach. I would circle on my ground and then she is gone before I am able to do anything. I have no trouble approaching chicks in the nightime but the ones I find during the day are MUCH more attractive. Please guys advise how I can overcome this fear or point me to literature that helps. I am hating myself for missing out on these opportunities. Like today I was at the service station I spotted a HB9 while ordering dinner and couldnt do anything about it. Couldnt eat my dinner afterwards of how much disgusted I was at myself. If there is one thing I want to achieve in 2008 is the overcome this fear.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What are you..a vampire? You can approach at night but not during the day?

Sounds more like an excuse than fear to me.

Plus don't kill yourself over something so trivial. This is just something you are going to have to get over yourself.
 
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absolutbeirut.. ive been on this forum for a while and i never did the dj boot camp.. and im so fed up with my self also that i am going to full indulge the boot camp, you should start it at the same time with me starting uh... tomorrow! i have that much motivation right now hence being the new year, me wanting to get into better shape than i am and having goals. i am going to post my results day by day in a thread what do ya say? lets do this and become what we dreamed of!
 
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