"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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bish001

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hey im new to site so im still kinda nice guy, ive got this nice girl interested and im gonna get her to come out with me on the weekend. ive only met her a few times with friends at the pubs etc, but i want us to go out on our own = just me and her.
any suggestions where would be good to go?
i`m not sure going for a meal would work so well cuz i think conversation would die and then things get uncomfortable, i was thinking of going to see a movie with her but my friend laughed and said thats what our parents used to do, any ideas?
sorry if i posted in wrong place.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by bish001
hey im new to site so im still kinda nice guy, ive got this nice girl interested and im gonna get her to come out with me on the weekend. ive only met her a few times with friends at the pubs etc, but i want us to go out on our own = just me and her.
any suggestions where would be good to go?
i`m not sure going for a meal would work so well cuz i think conversation would die and then things get uncomfortable, i was thinking of going to see a movie with her but my friend laughed and said thats what our parents used to do, any ideas?
sorry if i posted in wrong place.
run a search on first date. u'll get about 10 million threads.

then work out that the best way for her to have a good time, is if you're having a good time.
so take her somewhere you know you'll have a good time.
 
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