"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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need help with aggressive closing

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Generally I'm looking for advice on being an aggressive closer but heres the story.

So it's the first couple days of college classes and I'm in Humanities class. We pair into groups and me and this girl are quickly connecting. I'm getting iois all over the board and just having a good time. After class we're walking to our cars and I'm checking her out thinking "damn id like to tap that" HA and then i get in my car and drive away. and now im thinking damn, i really could have made something out of that. Things like this happen all the time. I'm getting crazy iois and doing well in opening and mid game and then just can't close. I've seen/heard of guys who, when they get iois like this, just go in for it and close like a boss but i cant seem to ingrain this into my style. So really any advice on how to be a more aggressive closer, but also what I should have done in this situation? In my head I'm thinking i could have just walked over to her car, gone for the kiss, and escalated from there but what do you guys think?

p.s. I'm actually not even afraid of a no. my problem is more that i cant think of the proper way to go about closing as if its just not my natural reaction. like today when i saw her walking i just didnt even think about just going over there and balls to the wall k-closing
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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comedyjake said:
need help with aggressive closing
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Answer: Roofies




ooooooor, you can sit down and think about the situation you were in and how you would have gone about it differently the next time. It is easy to tell yourself you are gonna do it, but hardly anyone ever sits down and really thinks about how they would tackle the situation if it were to arise again. That is really the only difference between you and the guys that approach on command... they go in and if it works, great. If it doesn't work so they sit and think of a new approach to take and try it the next time.
 
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