"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Need Help With A Waitress

tomcat2007

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Dear Guys:
I need some advice. I have gone this Sports/Stadium bar to work on business plan for college. To make this story short their is this cute waitress who works there that has caught my attention. She seen me before(from university in another town) and has asked about the project/helped me out. I cut to the chase: How do I ask her out without scaring her off, having her throw me out/get a restraining order, or have her employer S**t a brick at me. I have read some the "how to get waitresses threads" but need some advice for the final push and to close the deal. Any help would be appreciated. Cheers Guys. Later
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Pappadapolis

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Be upfront and confident. Then ask her straight up, "Jane, I'd like to take you out. What's your phone number?"
 

JPFromTally

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tomcat2007 said:
How do I ask her out without scaring her off, having her throw me out/get a restraining order, or have her employer S**t a brick at me.
If you think this is what's going to happen then you're already hurting yourself.
 

ValleyDJing

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JPFromTally said:
If you think this is what's going to happen then you're already hurting yourself.
For real...seems like everyone on here is paranoid about stupid s.hit. I hear all this crap like, "oh i'm scared to have sex with her cuz she might claim I raped her...blah blah blah". Thats an excuse to continure to be a virgin.
 

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tomcat2007 said:
Dear Guys:
I need some advice. I have gone this Sports/Stadium bar to work on business plan for college. To make this story short their is this cute waitress who works there that has caught my attention. She seen me before(from university in another town) and has asked about the project/helped me out. I cut to the chase: How do I ask her out without scaring her off, having her throw me out/get a restraining order, or have her employer S**t a brick at me. I have read some the "how to get waitresses threads" but need some advice for the final push and to close the deal. Any help would be appreciated. Cheers Guys. Later
Read this extraction i posted in a similar topic, its good.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=116555

Read it!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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