"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Need help with a possible HB8.5

jdawgmcb

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Don't want this to turn into a PUA argument, so keep it out of this thread.

Anyways, for the last few weeks i've been playing this girl on and off, and I think i'm starting to get some IOIs to show attraction and need to know if I am ready to move to the next stage, or if it's just a "Little Miss Sunshine" approach.

Anyways, the last 2 days, when i was in the middle of my schoolwork, I look up and was able to see her sitting right next to me out of nowhere, which I know is an IOI.

Now, I was wondering if this was an IOI.

She draws "I (then a picture of a heart) and her name" on a piece of paper that i was working on and says, "That's probably what you write all over your house." Naturally, I respond "Well, now, I don't think so..." She then replies "Now, i'm not that conceded!" I then continue to ask her what she did yesterday, bla bla bla, and the period is over.

So tell me, do you think she is at a level of attraction that I am able to make the next move?

Mind you guys, this is high school, and I've never really spent time with her outside of since we were classed together.

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Also, I do not have pics, so don't ask.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Phats

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From my knowledge of this site, not experience, this seems to be a prety big IOI. She seems to have shown you that hoping you would respond postitvely, maybe fishing for confidence with you.

'Now i'm not that conceited'? Is that what you meant?

I would have thought carrying on the banter as opposed to ****ty normal talk about WUBU2 etc would have been better eg. 'Hmm, you seemed pretty sure of yourself drawing that. Do you do this to all guys or am I just an exception? (Said with a grin).

Should get her all flustered.

As far as 'making the next move' goes, if any respected board member read this they would reply with 'get her number, ask her to meet up', so I'm gonna go with that.
 

Alkali

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"I'm not that conceded!"

Don't move in, she's a moron.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She wants you.

Any relationship based in highschool classrooms follows the same basic progression:

  1. Seeing the girl
  2. Introductory chat
  3. Establishing interest
  4. Securing a number
  5. The setup date
  6. ???????
  7. Sexy time

Number 3 can be a pitfall, that moment when the choice is made: are you a friend or are you a lover?

The litany of options presented on this website (kino, eye contact, CF, etc.) will help you direct this defining point to where you want it to go. Right now, you seem to be getting an extension. She's interested as hell mate, or she would've settled you in as a friend by now.

Touch her arm, feel the situation, ask for a number and leave her wanting more. It's your moment.
 
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