"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Need help with a PA system guys!

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For those of you in bands or experiance in this stuff

We desperately need a p.a. system! But the issue is money man! Those things are expensive!! So I need your guys help please!

Right now were looking at a p.a. system package thing for 400 bucks, list price is 800. But my friend said those little things suck ass. Heres the one me and my other vocalist are looking at.

http://samash.com/catalog/showitem....&Search_Type=SEARCH&GroupCode=nonetodaythanks

What do you guys think? Please gimme your replies were desperate for this we need to get this stuff before me and my band start playing at gigs and shows
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Check the local trading rags

... those little free classified ad rags you see in newsstands all over the place. Here we have one called "Trading Times."

Very often there are PAs and such being unloaded for less than you can find them for in a pawn shop.
 
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What are you going to be using this for? A rehearsal space? Give me some details and maybe I can help you out a little more.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Nocturnal - But we need it for when we practice or play at gigs without pa's,.


Hypoxnia II - Were a hardcore band and were gonna need it for practicing in the garage and playing at any kind of gig so we have 2 guitarists and a bassist and drummer ofcourse so we need to be heard good when were yelling into our mics. were gonna probably need to plug in me, my other vocalist and drummer
 
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ok,

for practicing in a garage or playing a house party the setup you found should work fine. As far as playing in larger spaces that setup isnt gonna be any good (im sure you already knew that).

Unless you wanna spend upwards of $2000+ your best bet is to peice together a set-up with other bands that are also playing the venue if there is no house PA. It kind of sucks but all bands go through that at the beginning.

In my personal setup I have tri-amp system with 3 QSV 1000 watt amps, a behringer 4 way (3 band + sub output) crossover, behringer 2 channel tube mic pre-amp, and JBL 1500 watt speakers for each band running off a 16 channel mackie board. I have around $2000 invested and I can thump a house party crystal clear but larger areas I have to pull in backup equipment from friends..


Good luck to ya man.

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