"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Aight so i met this really fine azz cheerleader 9.5 :p ofcourse what less you expect! But nways me and her got really into each other and had a really deep connection ( thank you NLP) So she was like here take my phone # and plz call me, i didnt call her ofcourse cuz u know im cool :) but she really wanted 2 hangout with me and started obssesin with me.. well im just playin it cool right now and kinda unsure on how 2 escelate this :p me and her need some alone time but hehe i got no transportation and i live with my parents hehe cuz im a teenager still but i dont give a FUC! cuz when i grow up im going to be a rich succesful businessman and i got my own thin already going on but thats besides the point:D I know i sounda kinda AFC right now but i aint cuz i got an 9.5 just kinda not sure where and how to escelate this. Yall feel me ?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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mongolboy said:
Aight so i met this really fine azz cheerleader 9.5 :p ofcourse what less you expect! But nways me and her got really into each other and had a really deep connection ( thank you NLP) So she was like here take my phone # and plz call me, i didnt call her ofcourse cuz u know im cool :) but she really wanted 2 hangout with me and started obssesin with me.. well im just playin it cool right now and kinda unsure on how 2 escelate this :p me and her need some alone time but hehe i got no transportation and i live with my parents hehe cuz im a teenager still but i dont give a FUC! cuz when i grow up im going to be a rich succesful businessman and i got my own thin already going on but thats besides the point:D I know i sounda kinda AFC right now but i aint cuz i got an 9.5 just kinda not sure where and how to escelate this. Yall feel me ?
Much Love to the community.
Could you communicate coherently and not ramble?

Just treat her like you'd treat a 7....her hotness doesn't affect the fact that you're a MAN and she's a WOMAN. Get her to drive if she has a car, i not, get a lift to the mall, meet her, then go watch a movie or something and escelate ie from there.
 

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Yes it seems you ramble a little bit, but like someone stated above just tell her to meet up at the movies and escalate from there , it will be dark (Go to a movie that has been out for a while so it can be empty) and then escalate from there. IF she is into you as much as you say she is then she will let you and maybe you can get some head from this girl who knows good luck.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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First of all, you gotta realise that she's (I doubt) a 9.5, but probably 8 or something, simply going by the fact that your making it sound like she is sooo important to you. On this note, my advice for you, is none, you don't need advice, if she's already yours. I mean, to help you we'd have to give you solutions for every single possible situation which could happen whilst you're out with her.

Good luck friend
 

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Mr Plow said:
First of all, you gotta realise that she's (I doubt) a 9.5, but probably 8 or something,
:rolleyes: Don't be a douchebag mate...if she's a 9.5 to him then she's a 9.5, because its her thats trying to get with her...

There's no universal scale.
 

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LOL, yall i know i guess i was just being a wussy:p but hehe Thanks for the advice yall and its workin already and YES She is a 9.5 to me :) i woudnt want more than this, this is enough ! But nways everything is goign well for me nam sayin? I found out that my ass got some chronic depression or some sht like that and gettin that curd now... my inner game is gettin really good, more confidence, more naturalness and so on.. But idc about these cheesy pickup lines or dhv, neg and all that kinda **** anymore cuz i noticed that my game is gettin good just naturally cuz im gettin more confident and more smooth nam sayin?
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L777 said:
:rolleyes: Don't be a douchebag mate...if she's a 9.5 to him then she's a 9.5, because its her thats trying to get with her...

There's no universal scale.
Yes, yes, fantastic if she's a 9.5 to him... We just don't want him to catch a bit of the ol' Oneitis :up: plus I'm not really for pedestallin' in most cases :rolleyes:

P.S. check out your lil' mistake, you make him sound like a lesbian girl :D :p

P.P.S. Glad to hear of your improvements mongolboy keep it up :up:
 

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Thank you for the support yall its really helpin out a lot...but nways im gettin the hang of this now and becomin a natural nam sayin! (thinking outside the box) u could say so no more looser ass AFC for shure, thas what im happy about.
OH and me and that girl had some very STIMULATING TiMe :)
Thanks to the DJ!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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