"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Need help winning banter war with a girl...

ThePostalDude

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Banter with a cute girl, she's beating me and I can't think of a good comeback. Help me out:

Me: Dw you can talk to me, you're cute so I've decided to give you a shot

Her: You've decided to give me a shot... Other way round mateeee ;) So this is just friendly chat right... Felt the need to say that.. after last time you had a go ;)Xx (she means last time I had a go at getting with her)

Me: I was young and foolish back then ;p it would never work between us *name* you're far too innocent

Her: Ohh yeah it was only like three weeks ago! Haha.. Ohh shut up, your making it out as if I wanted it to work!!! You mean I'm not cringe like you! x
What should I reply with?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ThePostalDude

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I'm thinking of putting something like:

"Ahh right, that's why you're keeping track of how long it's been since I hit on you ;)" but I'm not sure what to put on the end... I would put something like "you're lucky I find fiesty girls like you sexy" but is it a bad idea to use pull instead of push right now?
 

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just text "HOLY CRAP GOTTA GO, BE RIGHT BACK"

and don't come back for 2 hours :p
 
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According to PIMP you should simply not reply for a few days and see where it takes you. I kind of like the idea personally.
 
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