"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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need help w/ ultra-flirty girl

Long2024

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Two problems I'm having.
1)Hard to gauge interest level. Obviously need to subtract a few points from the predictive value of anything she does since she jokes about wanting to have sex with every guy she meets, but are there any things such a girl would only do to guys she had sincere interest in? (short of actually going to first base, since she got pretty pissed at the last guy who tried to pull that after she said something about wanting him).
2)Assuming I can get a decent estimate of interest level, it's hard to tell what's appropriate and effective behavior around her. Raising her interest level is going to require more than with most girls b/c lightly touching her arm during conversation and calling that kino just doesn't cut it. On the other hand, sticking a hand down her pants is probably unacceptable. But a lot in between those two poles is gray area, so help demystifying that would be appreciated.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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decades

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Dude you have just met up with an AW. An Attention HOR. Now, I can tell you from hard won experience that if you get tangled up with her, your life will be WORSE than a living Hell. Are you hearing me dude? RUN from attention hors and leave them to the AFCs who will be lined up wherever she goes to try and win her over. And you know why they will be lined up? Because they are actually just responding to the OVERT sexual signals this woman is putting out routinely. RUN from this attention whor and remember HER because knowing what an attention hor is all about is the best way to never get involved with the next one who crosses your path. And they will.

regards
 

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