Need HELP ! urgent

[JimKnopf]

I'm a noob here and from Europe...but I've started with boot camp two weeks ago so I already mastered the Hi's and the Convos...and here comes my problem :

Within these weeks a girl from my school got interested in me..so we had some dates and now this whole thing is at a point where I should make the next steps(right?) ! ok today we went for dinner together and after that i wanted to get a step forward - for instance more kino...physical stuff etc. BUT I totally ****ed up and ended up being at a loss of words...so that it turned out that right now I'm in the chump section...

So here's the question ! and its really urgent...How do I proceed the whole thing...should I stay with my c&f attitude and act as if nothing happend or should i confront her....ARGH !!! i hate it when you fail and end up at zero ! HELP NEEDED !
yeah right now i'm in the total wuss zone BUT i want to improve y skills and want to change my ways of thinking, especially when it comes to women(therefore boot camp etc.) ! so i hope you can give me some advice ! thx

 

[DeathDealer]

first impressions always count.

 

[JimKnopf]

k

means : keep on with my game and make the best out of it ?
be yourself and don't try to copy any formulas or techniques ?
any further tips

 

[GaryNas]

I tend to make a joke out of everything and that suites my personality. I'm not sure exactly what made you feel like a chump, or why you were at a loss of words, but let me give you an example of things I've done...

If the conversation dies down I say stuff like "Well, this conversation has certainly gone to sh1t."

Or at the end of the date that went well I've said "So, do I get that awkward first kiss now?"

Like I said though, this suites my personality and it more often than not gets a laugh and keeps things going.