"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Need help turning Ex-GF into FWB

girlsarecrazy

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2 weeks ago we mutually broke up saying that we were getting too close to each other to the point where we couldn't go a day without being by each others side which started to affect each others life.

We broke things off... but now we started hanging out again after 2 weeks.

We are sooo close to each other still. We get along sooo well, our conversations are awesome, we joke about our past, and we joke about our breakup and some of the things we said while we were in our hard breakup.

We still flirt, there still is chemistry, we can talk about each other without hurting each others feelings. We are very comfortable sexually as far as talking.

The only thing that is different is that we don't kiss or hold hands. I'm starting to feel like her best friend but with the feelings still there.

I decided to throw this line at her when talking about where our friendship is going to go. "People get horny, things happend..." I was very vauge and she knew what's up and she was just like, "That's something i'm going to have to think about..."

I emphasized on how we should just focus on having fun and keep in mind that we both know what we don't want to happen (Stuck in a Bubble in a serious relationship).

Like we still agree that we both can't see each other with another person right now because we're both still not ever our relationship.

I'm not going to talk to her a lot like i used to when we were going out. I'm going to make sure she's the one calling me and trying to get a hold of me. And she is showing a lot of interest and attraction to me still.

But i need to turn this into something physical and sexual. Any tips?

The main focus is: The Summer is coming up, Me and her want to still have lots of fun together, but we don't want to be tied down to where we can't go on with our normal life.

Basically: How can i turn her into a crazy nympho that begs for me?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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three12

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girlsarecrazy,

In my experience, this CANNOT work out.

Always leave a girl better then you found her.

Do this, and one of you WILL get hurt.

One of you is already more attached then the other, and its likely this will be the person hurt. Keep it as friends or move on and find another 'nympho that begs for you'. They really aren't hard to find.

Save both of your hearts, and time, and emotional damage. Do NOT get with her unless you and her both want an exclusive relationship.

three12.
 

girlsarecrazy

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We are still a work in progress. This is my side project as I look for other girls right now. But she shows so much potential to be something, i don't know what it is right now.

I'm down for anything with this girl. I'm so convient for this girl too. Her parents love me, She lives 5 minutes away, She's def. rated a 9. She's my prom date.

If she gets too attached, i'll turn it back into a full blown relationship and start things over and set new guidelines so it doesn't turn into what we broke up over.

I'm not talking or seeing her everyday. We just plan the dates ahead. I have her Saturday booked with me.

She's just confused right now on what to do. I just want to show her a crazy time everytime I go out with her.
 
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