"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Need help transitioning into comfort stage

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I been talking to this hired gun for a couple months and everytime I walk in she starts busting my balls and we banter back and forth all the while three or four of her orbiters is standing around with their mouths open. Anyway I cant seem to get over to the comfort stage. Any advice?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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samspade said:
Not sure what you mean by hired gun, but...

Have a day where you don't talk to her. I.e. pull back. Just say "I can't talk right now" and be preoccupied. Otherwise she'll get used to the same old thing everyday and consider you predictable.

AND/OR

At some point say to her, "You've been wayyy flirty lately. I better stay away for a bit." Have a sly grin on your face so you're not sounding accusatory.
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Hired gun is a name that some pua people use for a chick hired for their looks.
 
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