"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Need help transitioning into comfort stage

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I been talking to this hired gun for a couple months and everytime I walk in she starts busting my balls and we banter back and forth all the while three or four of her orbiters is standing around with their mouths open. Anyway I cant seem to get over to the comfort stage. Any advice?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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samspade said:
Not sure what you mean by hired gun, but...

Have a day where you don't talk to her. I.e. pull back. Just say "I can't talk right now" and be preoccupied. Otherwise she'll get used to the same old thing everyday and consider you predictable.

AND/OR

At some point say to her, "You've been wayyy flirty lately. I better stay away for a bit." Have a sly grin on your face so you're not sounding accusatory.
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Hired gun is a name that some pua people use for a chick hired for their looks.
 
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