"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dabrant29

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So i have this Dilemma and i need help Quick if anybody can throw me some input i would be so very appreciative. So i have known this girl for about a year or ever since the beginning of year at college here Her name is Keisha and She is a Freshman so she is 18 and im 21. Well at the beginning of the year we hung out a lot and were super good friends cause she cares about music as much as i do being a music Ed major its hard to find people who really do appreciate music like me plus shes fun and cute and everything. long story short we stopped talking at the beginning of the year cause she started hanging out with other people in our choir and started to become quite like Sexual I guess with some peeps this i just what i heard.
So she called me the other day for me to help her with some hhomework and i help her.. I guess i don't know if she only called me cause im smart and knew how to do Philosophy or what but should i ask for something in return for helping her or what do i text her cuz She wants me to help her with like 9 more quizes tonight i got my own **** to deal with to for finals you know HELP HELP HELP
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Eddie417

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I am pretty sure she's calling you because she likes you.
 

JDA70

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So you like her right?
So whats the hold up dude?
 

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this happened to me once.

heres what u do

help her with her work once...

ask her to chill.

if she chills wit u then she probably isnt just using you.

if she makes an excuse, she just wants ur homework
 

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Good Answers I don't think she likes me cause we stopped hanging out at the beginning of the year. I did help her once. I just said that i would be glad to help her cept i wanted her to like try n listen n get something out of the class. Cause people who don't do any of their work would have a dagree based on nothing. So i guess i will ask her to chill n see if she takes me up on it. ONly Issue is that like i thought she was a super innocent girl at the beginning of the year when i met her and now like ive heard some things how when she got into the whole college party thing she got kinda wild n slept with a few people in the music department i know. So i have no idea what im suppose to take on that. I mean i am a 21 years old who has never had a gf cause i really care about more then hooking up with people life has so much more to it then just sex i wish more people thought like that.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Randallpink83

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scew it, im just gonna start copying and pasting...

........Randallpink reaches into top desk drawer, his hand deftly lifts the revolver. He puts it to his head and screams "NOT ANOTHER ONE OF THESE FVCKING THREADSSSSS AGHHHHH GOD"... He pulls the trigger... peace... misery ended.

love, randallpink




i guess i should explain where i'm coming from http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=134383
:p
 

Dabrant29

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Randall WTF is that suppose to mean your saying Asking for advice is not really a good thing or something? WTf I am actually pefectly comfortable with my life and everything in it. I asked for help cause maybe someone else had gone through a similar situation or something ya know that thing called EMPATHY ! Damn dude have some realization that maybe not everybody is you.
 

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I already posted a link explaining where I'm coming from...;)

I suppose I'm being a jerk. Asking for advice should be ok, but for some reason in most these particular cases it's just not with me... lol. Nothing personal, you are one of many.
 

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Your just ignorant and might not have the thought that people know the things you do. Everybody has different experiences in how they learn things thats actually a deuche move to even post that opinion you should keep it to yourself if your not giving advice or want to read it don't open the ****in thread *******.
 

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Dabrant29 said:
Good Answers I don't think she likes me cause we stopped hanging out at the beginning of the year. I did help her once. I just said that i would be glad to help her cept i wanted her to like try n listen n get something out of the class. Cause people who don't do any of their work would have a dagree based on nothing. So i guess i will ask her to chill n see if she takes me up on it. ONly Issue is that like i thought she was a super innocent girl at the beginning of the year when i met her and now like ive heard some things how when she got into the whole college party thing she got kinda wild n slept with a few people in the music department i know. So i have no idea what im suppose to take on that. I mean i am a 21 years old who has never had a gf cause i really care about more then hooking up with people life has so much more to it then just sex i wish more people thought like that.
You are an AFC dude. You also seem like a nice guy, but dude, start watching out for yourself. PUT YOURSELF FIRST DAMMIT. YOUR FINALS COME FIRST. DAMN:rockon:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Dabrant29 said:
WTF is AFC?
you're AFC = average frustrated chump.

Go read the DJ Bible at the bottom of the front page. There's a link.
 

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DUDE **** YOU IM not an average Frustrates Chump. Your just a stupid dumb **** who needs to get the ****in mouth smacked cause you don't know anything.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Potbelly

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DUDE **** YOU IM not an average Frustrates Chump. Your just a stupid dumb **** who needs to get the ****in mouth smacked cause you don't know anything.
I dunno bro, all those swear words and misspellings make you seem pretty frustrated. Or as you say, "frustrates".
 

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If you got your own work to do. Do YOUR work first! It's about you first and her second. You will be able to tell if she is just using you or not. Don't get blinded by those proper t!ties and big ol' thighs...
 
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