need help... QUICK!

[excel]

Ok well I'm first year at college. There's this really hot girl in my English class and we've been talking lately after the first few classes where we sat too far away from each other. Today we had coffee after class and talked a little bit. What should be my next move? We hang out in different groups and our only time to talk is in class. What should I do next? I was thinking of inviting her to this party this weekend and telling her to call me about it. So if she's interested she'll call.


That sound good?

 

[Walden]

Ask her out to her face. If you must then get her on the phone and ask her out there.

Telling her to call you about it is like having a salesman say : Call me sometime later if you want to buy these encyclopaedias. Will you ever get around to calling the guy about his d*mn encyclopaedias. No you won't.

 

[uniassign]

If you are skilled in attracting a girl, then taking her to a party would be good because then you can go PU other girls in front of her to make her jealous, have social proof etc.

However, if you are not really that skilled, don't invite her to a party. You have many distractions to deal with - like other guys trying to PU her, other targets for you to attend to, friends to talk to etc.

Take her to do something fun instead

 

[Pimp-sicle]

You should read the Bible and realize that you are developing a case of one-itis faster than a virgin busts his load.


Give us some more information about the extent of the conversations you have. Are you C/F, are you getting any indicators of interest form her? Or does it seem more like a buddy/buddy type of thing right now? Give us more info and we'll break it down for you.




PIMP