"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Jamal

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I just found out today that Mystery Method openers is not necessary in HS. I just wanted to know after I do my negs and storytelling(Attraction stage) in class with this hot chick, should I follow the MM during the qualification stage (show the interest)? Should I continue the qualification stage in the classroom or do I need to isolate her like goin to the movies with her?...What would you do?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Supremo

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Hey man I'm a loose follower of MM and I can vouch that it does work just as well in HS for girls that you don't know.

The problem is, most people already know the girls or have a rep with these chicks so it's hard to change that view into an intimate one.

What I've found works is, at the beginning of your attraction, throw in a lot of DHV spiked stories (not all in one day) and neg A LOT. HS girls are all ADD in the relationship side of things and if it gets boring she'll move on. I generally like to work the A1-A3 like norm, go into comfort, then switch back and forth between the attraction and comfort stages to keep things fun.

To answer your question, you should definitely isolate by taking her to a movie, or to watch a movie at your place (if you think she's attracted enough) and start to escalate. Waiting too long for a first kiss in HS is deadly.
 

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If i remember correctly MM is Attraction Comfort Seduction 3 phases. For comfort it should take place in a diffrent location or if you cant you should start comfort over the phone its actually just MINICOMFORT. So if you dont have her number you need to get that first. Then call 2-3 times every phone call is a game in itself Atraction Comfort then Close. Start off with somthing witty or attractive then move into comfort storry then Close with Talk To you Later. On the 3rd call and only on the 3rd is when you set up a Meetup or invite her over or to join you to go somewere. Then you start of the meetup with the same **** attraction Comfort comfort comfort then move ito seduction once shes butterd up. if you need more help just read MEHOWS GET THE GRIL ebook has alot of good techniques and i find it alot simpler and just as effective as MM
 
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