Need Help Please

[spread_love]

Alright, long story short, I'm in my late 30's and have had a few long term relationships (and lots of short ones) and lived with a few girls over the years, but lately, I feel like even though I don't want to be single,I deserve to be with someone, but I just can't be bothered going out looking for her and I am well past all the bs games Woman play, I really just need something or someone to blow me away, the last girl I dated was just, well boring (she is just a friend now and I never slept with her) and there is a girl I have had a crush on for months on at my local pub/restaurant, she gives me that nervous edge I get when I really like a girl, do you know what I mean?.

She probably has a boyfriend, I don't know, I have never asked, but she knows my name and always has a smile and a hello (and sometimes a chat) for me when I visit, I guess I am afraid of rejection from her, but if I don't try, I will never know right?.

It was just so different in my 20's, I was a bit of a Male slut, but my 30's have been a whole new ball game, I guess what I am really asking is, how do I get my mojo back?

Any advice is appreciated.

 

[Captain]

but I just can't be bothered going out looking for her and I am well past all the bs games Woman play

I hear this a lot from older men who want to settle down.

The thing is, you need to capture their attention. If you don't, you'll blend into the crowd. Attractive women (in their 20's) are approached thousands of times a year. You need to stand out.

she gives me that nervous edge I get when I really like a girl, do you know what I mean?.

Lust, oneitis, we have many names for it.

She probably has a boyfriend, I don't know, I have never asked, but she knows my name and always has a smile and a hello (and sometimes a chat) for me when I visit, I guess I am afraid of rejection from her, but if I don't try, I will never know right?.

After this period of time, things aren't looking too good. You're interested, so make a move next time you see her. A lot of attractive women have boyfriends. It's better to make a move and get rejected than it is to not make a move at all.

It was just so different in my 20's, I was a bit of a Male slut, but my 30's have been a whole new ball game, I guess what I am really asking is, how do I get my mojo back?

By meeting women, and talking to them, and having sex with them. Even if its not what you really want right now, and you want to find a woman to settle down with, this will help you interact with women.

The more you meet, the more likely you will be to find one you want to spend your time with.

 

[Randallpink83]

blow your age, the game is always the same.

I'm not gonna assume I know the answer. Or that I have the best advice. Or that I'm pimp enough to tell an elder what to do.


But looking in from the outside it sounds like the love life (and probably life in general) has stagnated to a life of mediocrity. So I would like to see you push yourself outside the box. And push yourself hard! You we're a bit of a slvt way back when??? Well now you should reach to become a Hardcore Rockstar MuthaRukka Pimp Slvt!!!!
Start hitting the game like you are a complete newbie. Take challenges and start approaching hundreds of girls. Do the system man! Especially start approaching Beautiful girls in their early 20's. Approach em all... who gives a fvck? Anything you desire is within your grasp.
Its time to leave your comfort zone so that you may grant yourself the opportunity to GROW and become a better you. Its inside you, and it wants out. It wants adventure, fulfillment, accomplishment, and it wants pvssy! really smokin hot pvssy!

So just challenge yourself. Seek to better your life and TAKE ACTION. And enjoy the ride!