"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Need Help Picking Up Girls

MrNoName

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How is everyone doing, i just really want to start by say love the website, all the tips has really helped me out but I'm still in need of help.See I'm a senior in high school and i have no problem getting girls in my classes but i wanna be able to get girls i see on the hallways, i just really need help with everything.I get scared to just walk up to them, then i don't know how to start plus I'm not talkative so i wouldn't be able to keep it going, I'm not really good when it comes to flirting which makes things harder.That's also another problem i have there are girls i would like to talk to in some of my classes but i can't for the same reasons, i would like to be like some people and pass notes around but since my flirting game isn't that good i wouldn't know what to say and keep it going.So i would really love if you guys would help me.Bascially I need help with my game.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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DJ Axton

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If you're struggling with the confidence to approach, then just read the bible, there's loads of posts about that in there. In fact, basically just read the bible.

Then just practice approaching; the more you approach, the easier it becomes. After about the sixth apporach you'll start to wonder why you thought this was so hard. After about the 20th approach you'll be ablt to do it with no problem, and eventually it will just be second nature for you.
 

SinJester

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If your a senior then younger girls probably will feel privelaged that you aproach them. Who gives a fvck what they think anyway, your the senior. Might as well make the most fo it because you aint gonna be around for much longer, then its too late buddy.
 
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