wakingup
Don Juan
Long story so I will be as brief as possible.
1. Ran into old acquaintance who has had crush on me for a long time.
2. We live 3,000 mi apart. Agreed on a **** buddy arrangement.
3. She buys me a plane ticket to see her and flies herself to see me in two month period.
4. We have incredible sex. She initiates almost all contact. We text 50 times a day for a month or so. We reiterate this is not a relationship we just love ****ing each other.
5. I end up taking her to her cousins house so she can give a gift. We ebd up there for hours, she gets drunk, tells her cousin that I am her quasi boyfriend.
6. She leaves the next day and I nearly just cut her off for 2 days. She calls and texts like crazy how sad she is.
7. I turn the pattern by not texting anymore and just calling. She is mopey and sad on 4 calls over 10 days. On each call she also tries $hit testing me by making a big deal out of nothing and I would act casual and say I had to go. She says I can talk to her whenever I want. I say I prefer to talk when she doesnt make me feel like her bad mood is my fault. She says that was a mean thing to say.
8. We dont talk for a week.
9. I call her yesterday and told her I was never mad just standing my ground. She said she doesnt want to talk about that yet and will call me tomorrow.
10. I love the sex w this girl and want to leave her wanting me so I can get with her later but not sure I gamed well enough. This girl sent me a valentines gift and was so attracted now shes acting like she could give two ****s about me because she fears im rejecting her.
Any thoughts?
1. Ran into old acquaintance who has had crush on me for a long time.
2. We live 3,000 mi apart. Agreed on a **** buddy arrangement.
3. She buys me a plane ticket to see her and flies herself to see me in two month period.
4. We have incredible sex. She initiates almost all contact. We text 50 times a day for a month or so. We reiterate this is not a relationship we just love ****ing each other.
5. I end up taking her to her cousins house so she can give a gift. We ebd up there for hours, she gets drunk, tells her cousin that I am her quasi boyfriend.
6. She leaves the next day and I nearly just cut her off for 2 days. She calls and texts like crazy how sad she is.
7. I turn the pattern by not texting anymore and just calling. She is mopey and sad on 4 calls over 10 days. On each call she also tries $hit testing me by making a big deal out of nothing and I would act casual and say I had to go. She says I can talk to her whenever I want. I say I prefer to talk when she doesnt make me feel like her bad mood is my fault. She says that was a mean thing to say.
8. We dont talk for a week.
9. I call her yesterday and told her I was never mad just standing my ground. She said she doesnt want to talk about that yet and will call me tomorrow.
10. I love the sex w this girl and want to leave her wanting me so I can get with her later but not sure I gamed well enough. This girl sent me a valentines gift and was so attracted now shes acting like she could give two ****s about me because she fears im rejecting her.
Any thoughts?