"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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lryuzaki00

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Hi guys, i`m in a bit of a situation here, that it might seem stupid to some, but i just don`t know what to do. Here it goes:

I`m 23 years old, and i have a girlfriend who is older than me (she`s 31) and to be honest, i`ve never enjoyed any other relationship as i have enjoyed this one. She is (being said in a cheesy way) the other half of my orange. I`m deeply in love with this woman, as she is with me (or, so she says ), to the point that we agreed to marry each other in the future, when i finish my carreer.

Now, the situation is this; i think i`m centering only on this one girl, to the point that i dont even approach any other girl, or dont meet women in any situation. But not only that, i just feel so confortable with this one, that i dont even see the necesity of approaching or meeting any other girl.

Is this confortability a threat to my girl-getting skills?; should i worry about meeting-approaching other girls as well??...

any thought on this will be appreciated THNKS DUDES!!!!!
 

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lryuzaki00 said:
: I`m 23 years old, and i have a girlfriend who is older than me (she`s 31) and to be honest, i`ve never enjoyed any other relationship as i have enjoyed this one. She is (being said in a cheesy way) the other half of my orange. I`m deeply in love with this woman, as she is with me (or, so she says ), to the point that we agreed to marry each other in the future, when i finish my carreer.
I'd say you're far too young to get married, especially to a woman of her age. Most women's looks start deteriorating in their mid to late 30's, and after marriage they take less care of their bodies.

What do you mean, "when I finish my career"? You're 23. Your career, if you have one, is just started.

Now, the situation is this; i think i`m centering only on this one girl, to the point that i dont even approach any other girl, or dont meet women in any situation. But not only that, i just feel so confortable with this one, that i dont even see the necesity of approaching or meeting any other girl.

Is this confortability a threat to my girl-getting skills?; should i worry about meeting-approaching other girls as well??...
Especially at that age, not meeting any other women is bad.
 

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How many kids does she have? lol.

You should be working on yourself as an individual. Look at your goals and what you want. Is what you have dovetailing with those goals?

Are you in love cause you like the whole love thing?

Its nice of you to be entertaining her goal of getting married to a sucessful man. What, she doesn't want to get married unless you can prove you're going to be successful? Gotta make sure you have the type of income she needs to support her desired lifestyle?

Love comes and goes. People don't think it, but its a commodity. Easily soguht, easily traded for money or sex ro security or whatever.

Now, here's the real killer. If you're so damn happy, why are you here? There's something you feel is missing in your life. What is it? What do you feel is missing? "Girl Getting Skills?" Do you feel like you'd be less of a man if you started forgetting the lines you've memorized?

You know, in my life as an AFC, I was always amazed at spies. Not the movie ones, the real life ones. The ones that would get a job, get married, have a wife, some kids, a white picket fence and a dog. How did they get fool the girl into becoming a wife, all while lying through their teeth. I came to realize this is all a lot easier then I thought it could be. She makes you feel comfortable with her, cause that's her ticket to the married life. She knows before long, her nipples are going to touch her knees.
 
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