"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Anyone got funny stories that I could use in conversation to make the girls laugh, realistic ones that are every day things? I'm having trouble, I've looked at some stand up com but they are all a little to silly I need some everyday s***. DJ's?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Nothing funny ever happens in you personal life?
 

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Not that I can think off, maybe I'm thinking too hard though, I'm sure if I had a fly on the wall version of my life I could watch it like a movie and laugh... Hmm....
 

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the stories wont really seem that credible if they arent your own, but one that happened to me a while back...

i had to play off sum music for a band director or wahtever the fvck, so i was about to sit on this chair and saw a bag kinda pushed it back

fvcking sat on the band directors lunch

i mest up his sandwhich and banana, not too bad, but yeah..
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Stories? How do you go from telling stories from getting her in bed?
 
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