Need help on club game

[thunder_god]

I'm really struggling with game at nightclubs. The music is too loud to talk, and when I do try to talk I usually either get blown out, girls friends dragging them away, or other guys ****blocking me.

I tried being physical by grabbing chicks hands but I got blown off every single time.

I tried dancing to lure chicks in to dance with me, but its hit or miss. I'm at my wits end right now. Here's two videos I recorded tonight from a nightclub I went to with some friends. You could barely hear anything there, and the place was packed with dudes. I feel nightclub game is a lot harder then daygame. I've gotten all of my numbers from daygame. It's ****ing frustrating as hell.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TP_ku1AAhcA&feature=youtu.be
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9kFoLC5sTg0&feature=youtu.be

 

[_sideways_]

Thats because thats a crappy club.
Makes the owner tons of dough though.

Just go be a club owner.

 

[stevo]

Go to different clubs in one night and if you're drunk/confident enough go break up a group of girls dancing, hopefully your boys join you but either way, you already know it's hit or miss.

Why are you trying to talk while dancing? if you're dancing a good while and wanna talk then take her outside or to the bar.

 

[Gunner26]

All about eye contact and body language to start off with. 'Chatting a girl up' in a club just doesn't work. Maybe if you get talking to them in the smokers area it might work. I find I've had most success just looking at girls while I'm dancing. Just be aware of who and what is around you. Don't go looking for girls per se, get yourself onto the dancefloor near to where the women are and do your thing. Glance over in their direction occasionally, but don't go over to them just yet. You need to wait for them to notice you, normally I wait until I've locked eyes with one of them at least twice, and you KNOW she's been looking at you. At that point go over, I try not to break eye contact either. If you've got solid eye contact as you make you way over you're sorted. Normally by the time I'm close to her she's looked down and back up, checked me out and looked back at my eyes. From there it's pretty simple, throw some shapes, get closer, make a move.

Alternatively you can just go at it like all the other horn-dogs and approach every girl and hope one reciprocates some interest. Then shove your tongue down their throat after a minute or two.

Just my thoughts.

Gunner

 

[Skyline]

Gunner26 is right. Its all about body language and how freely you can let your body "go."

I watched those videos and I was just thinking: "that looks like a lot of fun why are you just sitting there!?" Honestly, I'd rather prefer to do well with day game rather than night. You can use day game anywhere whilst night is only limited to certain scenarios. Plus the quality of women dynamics between those two is pretty apparent...

But nonetheless I still sometimes get the jitters when I'm first placed in a situation that involves night game. You know what I do? I can't drink obviously so... I walk up to the dance floor and stand there(close your eyes if you have to) and listen to the music for about less than a minute(more if you need it it doesn't matter really.). Don't even care about the people that may look at you weird, this is about you. Even if it's sh*tty music there is always a beat. Once you hear a beat or a nice melody of the song playing, start moving your body in accordance that YOU think matches the melody. This can be anything from randomly moving your arms or legs in a weird pattern. Once you do this, you're essentially drowning yourself in the atmosphere by moving your body in accordance to the rhythm. This is a way to tap into that night game confidence.

If you can express your body freely, then that is a sign of confidence. I did this at my prom and even though it was extremely tough I was still pulling girls and getting looks from others. I ended up dancing with a few guy's dates, which wasn't even on purpose I was just feeling the moment.

Anyway once you start feeling the music, go for one random "bold" move to get your blood flowing. Like for example, I usually go up behind or in front of a girl and basically grab her. It can be from grabbing her hands and try and slow dance, putting your arm around her waist or shoulders, or even grabbing her hips from either side. Once you do this, succeed or not, your blood will be flowing and you should be ready.

But of course everyone has different methods... This one just works best for me but who knows. Every time I get in that moment that I described above I just feel fearless and limitless, it's really an amazing feeling. I understand you want to be cross trained in regards to night vs day game, but don't beat yourself up for being worse than the other. Some guys have zero night or day game!

 

[skinnyguy]

I'm gonna start going out on Tuesday nights. On Saturdays women have the bish shield up due to the overflow of AFC at the club

 

[El Payaso]

I'm gonna start going out on Tuesday nights. On Saturdays women have the bish shield up due to the overflow of AFC at the club

And then you'll come back and post about how your pedestalized white woman doesn't like Indian guys like you...