"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I was trying to take a girl to the football game later today and she's from my rival school and my school is playing them. It's gonna be the biggest game of the season in this state..anyhow the girl seemed interested earlier this week but after a while she never answered her phone or returned my text..I assume that she's flakin and isnt interested. Now, I'm still going to the game and I'm wondering, what happens if we cross each others paths...Do I say hi? do I ignore her if she approached and attempts to explain herself or something? I'm more towards ignoring her but i might come off as hurt,,,


Also, what are your experiences with mackin(not playing) at a football game?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She wont come up to you and appologize! duh!

I guess the ignoring could work, (silent treatment) but it all depends on how long you've known her.
 
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2 weeks...She seemed to show a lot of interest whenever I last hung out and she even invited me to her hotel party but it rained real hard and she cancelled it because everyone was staying home...

If someone observed her and the interactions with me, you'd think she was interested in me as well....

Anyhow, I might or might not go to this game by myself..Tonight's game is very big because our rival school is #5 in the nation and there's gonna be about 8,000 people there....I have two tickets one is vacant and game tickets are now sold out so I shouldnt let it go to waste..
 
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ok...

but I don't know, I have a feeling I'm gonna see this girl tonight..most girls that flake, I never see again, so its a little weird...

I should talk to other girls though it would be healthy..
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Yea, even if she see you talking to other girls, this will make her JELOUS!!
 
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