"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I was trying to take a girl to the football game later today and she's from my rival school and my school is playing them. It's gonna be the biggest game of the season in this state..anyhow the girl seemed interested earlier this week but after a while she never answered her phone or returned my text..I assume that she's flakin and isnt interested. Now, I'm still going to the game and I'm wondering, what happens if we cross each others paths...Do I say hi? do I ignore her if she approached and attempts to explain herself or something? I'm more towards ignoring her but i might come off as hurt,,,


Also, what are your experiences with mackin(not playing) at a football game?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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She wont come up to you and appologize! duh!

I guess the ignoring could work, (silent treatment) but it all depends on how long you've known her.
 
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2 weeks...She seemed to show a lot of interest whenever I last hung out and she even invited me to her hotel party but it rained real hard and she cancelled it because everyone was staying home...

If someone observed her and the interactions with me, you'd think she was interested in me as well....

Anyhow, I might or might not go to this game by myself..Tonight's game is very big because our rival school is #5 in the nation and there's gonna be about 8,000 people there....I have two tickets one is vacant and game tickets are now sold out so I shouldnt let it go to waste..
 
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ok...

but I don't know, I have a feeling I'm gonna see this girl tonight..most girls that flake, I never see again, so its a little weird...

I should talk to other girls though it would be healthy..
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yea, even if she see you talking to other girls, this will make her JELOUS!!
 
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