"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ronz203

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Ok so in my school i see this girl i wanted to talk to, but the only time I really see her is on the bus. So does any body have any good approaches i can use on a bus? Today for a second it looked like she was goin to sit next to me and i was about to say sumpthin like "its ok u can sit here, i dont bite" but it didnt say anything at all becuase i was kinda mad about some stuff that happened in school earlier. But my next problem is that after the opener i wouldnt know what to say next. So can somebody help?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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immrtlwun

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read the conversation part of the bible, its a big help.
 
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gum, sit behind her and offer her a peice of gum. Then if no one is sitting next to her ask if it is alright if you sit up there. Say something like the anoying kids behind me are getting on my nerves. But try reading the high school bible.
 
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