“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Spectre

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Alright so, I am in high school, a junior and i've been talkin to this girl in one of my classes, she's pretty good looking 7.5-8 and so today in class, her friend started to write a note it said, "Do you like (girl)? It seems like it!" but i never got the note but the girl got it instead. So the girl just texted me right now and said, "you never answered (other girls) question...lol"

What the **** do I do? I know never to reveal feelings to to the girl... Idk
Some advice on how to proceed please!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So I just texted her back and said, "Why should I tell you? :p"
Then she replied and said "Why not? :p"
 

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play it cool dude. dont get nerve wrecked over it. Im not gonna offer advice cause I believe you must make your own mistakes and learn from it.

remember. YOU ARE THE PRIZE!!
 

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Give her a time and place to hang out. If she declines for whatever reason just say ok and do not try to arrange another time yet.
 

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I respect your response, PokerStar.... Yeah, I'm kinda new, but this sight has been working definately.... I'm just not used to dealing with relationships. I've only gotten success with girls that aren't my girlfriend, but now this girl is talking about this cliche called "liking" and I'm not used to it, lol...

And yes, Tizzle, I did tell her we should hang out this weekend before you posted that... But I didn't give her a specific place or time (kinda messed up on that part, but too late)... we'll see what she says.

My mind set right now is "I don't care what the outcome is" Because I could always chill with another girl this weekend.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

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It sounds like you handled it ok. You know never to reveal what girls you like. Evade, use ****y/funny, etc., whatever you have to do to avoid answering that question. It is a trap.

As for the girl, discreetly ask her out again if you want but be specific about where and when. They like a man with a plan. I would ask her in person if you two are alone or just call her. Do not text your date request to her. She will forward the text to her gossipy girlfriend. Actually don't text anything of a personal nature to her. Women can't keep a secret and her nosy friend is bad news.
 
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