"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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NEED HELP: Never dated, terrible at body language/flirting...

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themoz said:
What?

Are you from another dimension of infinite resources and knowledge?

Employers only pay for experience and education they desire. More exp or edu = more $$$. overqualified

Not meeting criteria, education, or experience = unhireable = underqualified

This isn't a really difficuit or uncommon concept, really.:wave:


Anyway, why is this being harped on? I have a job already.:yawn:
Technically, if my theory is correct, I already live in a dimension of infinite resources and knowledge.
So yes. :crackup:

Anyways, I don't know how it works in USA, but in Australia you are paid based on age and award, not on educational merits.
this means that no matter where you get a job, there is a minimum pay rate based on your age, not your actual experience. The salary is based upon the job you will actually be undertaking, I don't know how you can be "Overqualified" unless it works differently in USA.

Under-qualified, is plausible though. But some places will train you (Depending on your current knowledge and experience) If you would be a valuable asset.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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But there's a lot of basic stuff I just don't know how to do: For instance, I really don't know how to compliment people. I dono why. I'm always afraid I'll come out as insincere so I never do it. And that's like the #1 cardinal rule when dealing with women.
Contrary to popular belief, complimenting is not the #1 cardinal rule when dealing with women. In fact it's so far down on the list you shouldn't even worry about it. Don't use compliments until you feel so safe and comfortable in your own skin that it naturally comes of sincere and not from a point of weakness and approval seeking.

Compliments are great when it comes from a position of power though. But you have a long way to go until that point.

If you do decide to compliment, don't compliment physical traits. Only ever compliment her personality and her style. The only compliment i use with consistency is that i like her style. It can mean so many things and definitely hits home..




That can't honestly work...lol. That's hilarious if it does. Needs a youtube video
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1mRM1VwUiYA

There you go.



Read the bible, change your mindset, apply what you learn and then see where you are.

Good luck, bro. :woo:
 
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