"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Need help learning to dance

Rint

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Hey i got a huge party coming up next week and i need to learn how to dance. This is a big oppurtunity for me to pick up girls and tune up my DJ skills, but according to my buddys who've done this before "girls will come up to u and make u dance with them, no slow dances" so i need to learn how to dance with a girl.

Thanx y'all
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Harp

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"girls will make them come up to you and dance?" Alright then....be like EVERY OTHER GUY!

Besides this topic has been said THOUSANDS of times.

DAFS

Find someone who has want you want, then do what they do.
 

Dutchy

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What kind of dancing are we talking about here? It is probably just club dancing, so all you have to do is to move up close to her, and move along with the music, make a lot of body contact. Dancing is a good idea to get some KINO working. But don't forget to stay cool. Don't go crazy.

Hope this helps

Greetz from Holland
 

WC2

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Dancing has landed me so many girls it's rediculous. If you've got style and a sense of rhythm, you can easily seduce a girl by dancing. It was a common affair to have girls ask me to dance out at clubs back at college, and it was easy as pie. If you make her feel like she's the only thing that matters while you're dancing and then leave her right after, she is bound to come running back.

Don't be like the other 9 out of 10 guys out there.
-One song is enough, don't overstay your welcome
-Feel her then feel the music. 90% of guys out there aren't even insync with the girl!
-Take the initiative to be creative and spice it up; make sure you're the one in control
 
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