"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Need help learning to dance

Rint

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Hey i got a huge party coming up next week and i need to learn how to dance. This is a big oppurtunity for me to pick up girls and tune up my DJ skills, but according to my buddys who've done this before "girls will come up to u and make u dance with them, no slow dances" so i need to learn how to dance with a girl.

Thanx y'all
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Harp

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"girls will make them come up to you and dance?" Alright then....be like EVERY OTHER GUY!

Besides this topic has been said THOUSANDS of times.

DAFS

Find someone who has want you want, then do what they do.
 

Dutchy

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What kind of dancing are we talking about here? It is probably just club dancing, so all you have to do is to move up close to her, and move along with the music, make a lot of body contact. Dancing is a good idea to get some KINO working. But don't forget to stay cool. Don't go crazy.

Hope this helps

Greetz from Holland
 

WC2

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Dancing has landed me so many girls it's rediculous. If you've got style and a sense of rhythm, you can easily seduce a girl by dancing. It was a common affair to have girls ask me to dance out at clubs back at college, and it was easy as pie. If you make her feel like she's the only thing that matters while you're dancing and then leave her right after, she is bound to come running back.

Don't be like the other 9 out of 10 guys out there.
-One song is enough, don't overstay your welcome
-Feel her then feel the music. 90% of guys out there aren't even insync with the girl!
-Take the initiative to be creative and spice it up; make sure you're the one in control
 
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