Need Help, just got dumped.

[sparky uk]

Hi guys, been seeing a girl now for nearly 6 months, everything was going so well, untill she dumped me, god that hurt,
she is 10 years younger than me, got her own house, and 2 children, single mother, i never met the children because we did`nt want too rush into things, our relationship started out as a bit of fun, then we became emotionally involved and became a couple, she told me last week that it was over, but wanted to remain good friends, her reasons were, that she is confused, its hard for her to move forward and make any commitment because of the children, even though she said the children would get on really well with me.she said that she was probably makeing the biggest mistake of her life splitting with me, she still loves me and misses me and thinks about me alot and that there is no one else
its my birthday in august and we were planning on going away for the weekend and she still wants to go away with me but only has friends.
i have deleted her phone number but she still text messages me, asking me how i am, and please answer me, i`m worried, i have not replied,
i feel as though she still wants to keep some sort of hold on me and i know that it is completely over,
any suggestions guys,
thanks.

 

[YAboi]

You're an intelligent guy for staying no contact with this woman. As you said , its over so keep it that way to avoid drama and look upwards and onwards towards a brighter future; possibly with another woman or women.....

 

[RandallLambert]

Keep it no contact. Let her do the worrying. She made the decision, let her deal with the fallout.

 

[TizZle]

Don't let yourself become emotionally involved before you are a couple with any chick.

Don't ever, i mean ever, give in and remain friends with a girl you've been a couple with UNLESS she has hot friends you want to try to game. In which case you might get c0ckblocked but its fun to try. lol.

Stay with the no contact thing.

 

[steviecruiser]

Just get out to the bars and clubs and start approaching! Thats what I do and I get tons of azz... makes 1 chick seem lik nothing...

 

[DonGorgon]

ignore her and move on.. she is not confused.. she knows that she wants to be with the guy se was cheating on you with... i.e. your time ran out.. Its what happens in 99% of human romantic relationships.. Dont waste time worrying about her.. she has moved on to her next man

 

[Cinamon]

I get the impression she wanted you to come running after her, or atleast go out of your way to prevent the break up.

Ever had one of those break ups where you dump someone and they are completely ok with it, and th fact they are ok with it, makes you almost want to do it all over again... i think this is quite similar to that. She cant handle that you gave up so easily. Dont contact her.

 

[sparky uk]

DonGorgon, you are spot on, she`s gone back too her ex bf, i deleted her off facebook, got rid of her mobile number and she still keeps sending me text messages asking how i am, i still will not reply, she`s outa my life now.