"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I made out with this girl last sunday at this cast party for a play i was in. The signs were all there and i followed DiCarlo Kino Escalation Ladder pretty righteously. This week goes by and one of my buddy who was trying to hit her up to asks her to this invitational dance(it's a school dance but you can only be invited to go by the school staff). Anyways I act like i don't give a **** because my buddy hardly seems like a threat ( kinda major afc, not doing too well on the looks department, and does'nt have the same social proof as i do.)

Well yesterday which was a friday,i called her up and ask her if she wanted to chill, But she was with my same buddy at uno's. So i say "maybe some other time."

Well, anyways last night i get this text message from her " i think we should talk about what happened sunday night but i don't want to over the phone cause you can never be postive you know what the other person means."

Now from what i can tell, i'm pretty sure i'm gonna have to next this chick. I'm not to certain though, so some input would really be appreciated.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

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^ dont listen to this guy; she just wanted to hook up with you once and doesnt want commitment just leave her alone
 
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bro have u ever heard the old "hook up with someone you regret" well thats probably the case here
 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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Update: Well it turned from meeting in person to talking on the phone. I chatted her up today and from what i can tell I'm still in some good graces. She asked me why i didn't invite her to that invitational dance. She also asked if i liked her and i said "maybe, I like a lot of things" ( i thought that answer was kinda weak)

The sad thing though was the fact that i was fretting over making this call all weekend and i know i shouldn't have. I don't know if it was the fact that i thought i was gonna be rejected or the fact that i thought some lesser quality kid snatched her up.
 
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