"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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amnbyrd

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Alright well Ive been on this site for a while and have read a lot of the stuff and I think I have the right state of mind though lately Ive been kinda in a rut/ and feeling down. I joined the military and have been far away from everything I grew up with and Ive been in Texas since last October. I havent had a gf in 2 months. I know a lot of the dj "rules" and mindset though I do tend to get nervous in some situations and cant approach. I have my life together-good job and place to stay and all thats taken care of from being in the military, I even have my own passion/hobby-cars, which Im very serious about/obsessed with. Well in this town there really isnt much to do though Ive been trying to find things to get into. The main thing ppl my age(19) do around here is on the weekends theres a few clubs which I havent gone to yet-I cant drink plus I dont dance so I guess it'd be pointless. Well I really wanna get back out there and start having a more active dating/lovelife though Im looking for something long term/serious rather than just a onenight stand(which is all I think the girls at the clubs would be good for) My last gf was into partying and drinking which Im not.
Anyways I guess its a longshot-finding a good girl I mean.
Any tips/input would be greatly appreciated.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Finding a good girl? WoW? I'm looking for one too! you have to go based on probabilities - will you find a good girl at a club or a church? Probably at a church - no guarantee there nowadays either!
 
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stay away from clubs if you want a relationship
 
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