"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Need help here........

Peaboto

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I have a pair of tickets to a concert which I purchased when going out with my now exgirlfriend. She is interested in going but I have not offered her a ticket. She said she will buy one for herself and if she sees me at the concert with another woman that I should not talk to her at all and she will ignore us. I told her that she's acting like a cavewoman and is a bore.
I just met a girl this past Tues. but she does not care for the music at this concert.
I have 3 options now: 1) go to the concert alone, not giving my ex the other ticket, 2) give my ex a ticket and sit with her or 3) invite the girl I met Tues. because I know she will come if I ask her and watch my ex make a fool of herself although I'm sure she'll be thinking that she's showing proper etiquette by not speaking to us.
What do you think I should do here?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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qweretyuiopas

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I say find a good lookin chick and give the ticket to her so she will go with you and you 2 may hit it off
 

So pimp its scary

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DEFINATELY NUMBER 3!!!

Hell, if you had 3 tickets, I'd say bring 2 girls with...

She is your EX-gf... so, her feelings are more irrellevant now than they were when you first met.
 
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