"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm in college and i really don't know what to make of this situation.

I've been in college for almost a 3 months and met this one girl during my first month here. First we did start as friends and i only had small feelings for her. But over the last 2-3 weeks this has been rapidly changing in a good way.

First it started with hold hands for more than an hour or so then it went to me holding her by the waist for another 20 minutes or so. We have been having random tickle and it always ends with cuddling. We have slept in the same bed together and we cuddle and hold each other throughout the night.

Seems that i have really good chance of pulling her in and recently i find out that see has a boyfriend that live 8 hours away. What am i supposed to do in this situation?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sounds to me like she totally digs you, but you are moving way too slow.

You are taking too long to seal the deal, if you know what I mean.... and you had better do it fast or else she is going to be with someone else and you will be left standing there with your d^ck in your hand.

What to do - next time you are "cuddling", and have good rapport.....push her away. Look at her and tell her..."I don't know about this, I don't think my mother would approve....." with a smirk. Maybe even leave the room, and again with a smirk on your face, tell her..."See ya later, I have an 8 o'clock...."

This totally turns them on.... 2 steps forward one step back...if you are familiar.

Do this, and make sure you have some condoms.

Don't mention the boyfriend. 8 hrs away is non existent.
 
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Thats what im thinking of doing. so the sooner the better right?
 
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today she actually said she was committed. should i still escalate?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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