So today I found out my ex is talkin to her coworker which is one of reasons I broke up with her. I want to text her, basically affirming my suspicions. Tellin her off, etc. my emotions are all over the place. I've been ghost since Sunday.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Need help guys
- Thread starter Nn877
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
DO NOT TEXT HER! I REPEAT DO NOT! Simply drop her and do your best at finding something to keep your mind from wondering. It's hard but thats the best thing to do. Go out with friends, pick up woman whatever. By not contacting her, you are driving her crazy because that is what she is expecting especially if she is does not know why things ended. Charge her to experience and move on. There is no point in life in being vengeful and even emotional (thats the womans job) as you have nothing to gain from it and more to lose.
rushing dude 123
Master Don Juan
Very well said Tomo.
Nn877 what do you think the result of texting her is going to achieve? If you are right or not, it will just push her further away, like you are some needy jealous ex and she will get off on that and will lead her into that guys arms even quicker.
So forget her and find someone else, think how lucky you are man, all those billions of hot girls out there are all for you my friend, Brazilian, Swedish, Colombian etc... (Did I give away my tastes in women oopps...)
Chick did you a huge favor, maybe she will come back maybe she won't, but till now you are a free man. So enjoy it!
So this leads you with the option of having a higher chance of her coming back to you (If you choose to accept) and more importantly banging lots of OTHER WOMEN!
Or the option you are thinking, which is pretty lame and consists of having no other women and having to chase a chick that is constantly getting railed by her coworker and getting off on you not liking it :cuss: .
The choice is yours my friend Win:Win or Lose:Lose
Nn877 what do you think the result of texting her is going to achieve? If you are right or not, it will just push her further away, like you are some needy jealous ex and she will get off on that and will lead her into that guys arms even quicker.
So forget her and find someone else, think how lucky you are man, all those billions of hot girls out there are all for you my friend, Brazilian, Swedish, Colombian etc... (Did I give away my tastes in women oopps...)
Chick did you a huge favor, maybe she will come back maybe she won't, but till now you are a free man. So enjoy it!
So this leads you with the option of having a higher chance of her coming back to you (If you choose to accept) and more importantly banging lots of OTHER WOMEN!
Or the option you are thinking, which is pretty lame and consists of having no other women
and having to chase a chick that is constantly getting railed by her coworker and getting off on you not liking it :cuss: .The choice is yours my friend Win:Win or Lose:Lose
So thankfully I didn't text, I was pretty drunk when I found out and luckily my phone died. Good advice from both of you. No point in acting vengeful, really have nothing to gain.
She did do me a favor, and I'm moving on. She's def texting me probably cause she's unsure of new dude. Either way I'm not gonna respond and provide her with an emotional blanket. I don't even want to be fwb with this girl. Chalking this as experience and closer to red pill land.
She did do me a favor, and I'm moving on. She's def texting me probably cause she's unsure of new dude. Either way I'm not gonna respond and provide her with an emotional blanket. I don't even want to be fwb with this girl. Chalking this as experience and closer to red pill land.
HyperAnalyze
Don Juan
Get your plates spinning. Listen to The Game has Changed by Daft Punk.
No contact. Drive her with madness.
No contact. Drive her with madness.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.