"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Need help getting past sticky point= #closing

Evolution

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I stopped relying on techniques a few months ago. I can build attraction, kino, but I never close the deal. I always thought I needed some cute line to get a girl's number. Now I know its not true.

It is really that easy to get a number? It seems kinda like opening, just throw it out there and she'll get you her number?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Obsidian

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hey, I gotta go, it was nice to meet you

oh, before I go, why don't I get your number in case I want to call you sometime



or alternatively, you can suggest a specific activity and if she sounds at all interested, ask if she wants to tag along. then get the #
 

tsmith2334

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this works like a charm, but only if you know the girl previously:

if you have any kind of positive past history with her, just be like... "i've got your number, right?"

depending on how they answer, just be like, "you know what let me check"

from there, if you don't have it, which you probably don't... just say "ooo you know what i don't have it" or "hmmm i'm not sure, i got a new phone not too long ago"

makes number closing a cinch
 
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