"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Need help getting past sticky point= #closing

Evolution

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I stopped relying on techniques a few months ago. I can build attraction, kino, but I never close the deal. I always thought I needed some cute line to get a girl's number. Now I know its not true.

It is really that easy to get a number? It seems kinda like opening, just throw it out there and she'll get you her number?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Obsidian

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hey, I gotta go, it was nice to meet you

oh, before I go, why don't I get your number in case I want to call you sometime



or alternatively, you can suggest a specific activity and if she sounds at all interested, ask if she wants to tag along. then get the #
 

tsmith2334

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this works like a charm, but only if you know the girl previously:

if you have any kind of positive past history with her, just be like... "i've got your number, right?"

depending on how they answer, just be like, "you know what let me check"

from there, if you don't have it, which you probably don't... just say "ooo you know what i don't have it" or "hmmm i'm not sure, i got a new phone not too long ago"

makes number closing a cinch
 
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