"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Divinely Exiled

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Hey guys.

Well i've been lurking here for awhile, and surprise surprise! 3 months later when I turned 17 I had my first girlfriend, blah blah, didn't work. Kissed a few girls after, felt like a God. And somehow during that time, I was actually getting some pusssay :rockon:

Well the thing is, my aspies isn't going good.. espically since my psychotic disorders are making my perception on life a bit.. unbalanced.

Is there a way to like, "clear" my head before I talk to females? Any books/threads on deep emotionally connection convos? I'm having a lot of trouble with that right now, because I have to manually tune my body language/voice blah blah, where would you advice I go to look for that? Any authors you guys would recommend for me?

Also brings up to the question, I'm outta high school, where do you advice what is the prime location for meeting new people is?

Thanks guys
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Search for the Foundations by Real Social Dynamics. Watch it then get back out there.
 

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thanks guys, i'll look into those :)
does anyone have any books on how to latch onto someone emotionly very rapidly? the idea which im thinking about is bringing up child hood memories and **** like that, would that even work? might have to pounder on that for awhile aye

cheers
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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