"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Need help getting at this girl

irocknike23

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So over spring break(next week) i want to prepare a plan to get at this girl I have in my English class

She is a 9. Beautiful body and face. She seems super chill down to earth.

NOW here is where I need help.

She is 24. I have never been with a woman that's over 21.....(look at my age on profile)

Is the game different when dealing with older women like this??

The first thing I want to find out is if she is married, or has a BF. I know the easiest way to tell is too look at her ring finger...WRONG. if you guys notice almost all girls today wear a ring on their ring finger, IDK why they do it but I have been seeing this since HS...so how do I find out?

After I get that out of the way, the next step is get her number(I really hope she is not married)

Now, the thing is she always speed walks out of that class and I kind of can sometimes see her walking to that class but not always. Should I:
1)Go early to the spot I usually see her walking from and "casually" run into her and start talking to her?
2)Chase her down after class?(i really dont want to do this one)

besides those 2 I got nothing else.


Oh and if she is 24, and single and in College that means she is DTF right?


Any help would be appreciated
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Scars

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I'd say flag her down (but not in a creepy way), and invite her to some party you're having. Have it celebrate something interesting, like the first or last day of spring break, or a beach party, or something. Make it interesting. Keep it simple. "Hey, I've seen you in class and I think you're pretty cute, you should come to my party on X date." If she is cooperative, then awesome. If not, move on. It kinda sounds like you have one it is. Even if she does show up, don't put all your eggs in one basket. Invite other girls you can flirt with, or at least other girls that LIKE you. Try not to seem so available. If you host a party, you're supposed to bounce back and forth between guests, there's nothing "rude" about it. But at the same time, make her feel welcome and comfortable and introduce her to people, then when the time is right, lay down the mac on her. If she's in college, she's probably not married. And older women aren't that much different than girls your age, just a little smarter, and know how to play the game, which is why you have to be prestige.

-Scars
 

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The easiest way is to just get a seat next to her in class. Build up your inner game/confidence and that **** is cake. It took me a good 5 years to realize how easy it is to game a girl in class. If you can't get a seat next to her, flag her down and be OBSERVANT.

My example: HB9 from class. Spotted her at the train station and noticed she didn't actually pay to go through the gates cause the machine messes up every now and then. I took the opportunity and went up to her and said something like "I saw that by the way" and she smiled and we just started talking.

Just be observant and apply what you observe.

This is just the beginning though. Read around for mid-game and such. I'm still working on it myself.
 
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