Infatuation is just it.
You're infatuated. Congratulations!
Stop being outcome oriented. Play with her a bit and see if she's even worth spending time with.
I had a deeper epiphany (perhaps for myself) last night, but ANY GIRL will give up her number just to say "NO" on the phone. Bottom line. Girls, most of them, don't have the tailbone to say "No" straight out. They'll make up B.S. lines or lead you on.
If you're not going to click with her, why play games with her? A girl will appreciate ****y realness more than she would ****y fakeness tryin' to get in her pants. Sure, it'd be nice to bang her, if that's all you and her want, do that. You're almost there.
But find out if she'd even like doing what you'd want to do, preferably an action date. If she's an obstinate *****, then drop her. You wouldn't befriend someone who's immobile, why get intimate with someone like that?
On landing a girl through outside advice from other players:
Using someone else's tactics means she kinda fell into someone else's game. Being untrue to yourself, how can one keep up something they're not? If I gave you something I'd say/do, it's inconsistent. Not that she'd know now, but say you get the date, then what? Back to SoSuave.com for what to do next? No. Use your brain, man, if you can't have "fun" with her, why bother? Do something you'd enjoy her participating in. Don't be her entertainment. You're INVITING HER OUT. Yes, you end up paying, but the deal with paying is she does WHAT YOU WANT. Not because you're a man, but because that's what's right, and what's human.
I just say you go with the flow. Go back to the original state. You can't care what comes of it. Besides you work together. I typically don't do it either, not for psychos, but because rarely can 2 human who were intimate be unemotional in a professional setting. SOME party always has more feelings and lets that be known. You're there to make money. Don't mess up your life on 1 broad, who's 99% guaranteed to not be your wife.
A-Unit
You're infatuated. Congratulations!
Stop being outcome oriented. Play with her a bit and see if she's even worth spending time with.
I had a deeper epiphany (perhaps for myself) last night, but ANY GIRL will give up her number just to say "NO" on the phone. Bottom line. Girls, most of them, don't have the tailbone to say "No" straight out. They'll make up B.S. lines or lead you on.
If you're not going to click with her, why play games with her? A girl will appreciate ****y realness more than she would ****y fakeness tryin' to get in her pants. Sure, it'd be nice to bang her, if that's all you and her want, do that. You're almost there.
But find out if she'd even like doing what you'd want to do, preferably an action date. If she's an obstinate *****, then drop her. You wouldn't befriend someone who's immobile, why get intimate with someone like that?
On landing a girl through outside advice from other players:
Using someone else's tactics means she kinda fell into someone else's game. Being untrue to yourself, how can one keep up something they're not? If I gave you something I'd say/do, it's inconsistent. Not that she'd know now, but say you get the date, then what? Back to SoSuave.com for what to do next? No. Use your brain, man, if you can't have "fun" with her, why bother? Do something you'd enjoy her participating in. Don't be her entertainment. You're INVITING HER OUT. Yes, you end up paying, but the deal with paying is she does WHAT YOU WANT. Not because you're a man, but because that's what's right, and what's human.
I just say you go with the flow. Go back to the original state. You can't care what comes of it. Besides you work together. I typically don't do it either, not for psychos, but because rarely can 2 human who were intimate be unemotional in a professional setting. SOME party always has more feelings and lets that be known. You're there to make money. Don't mess up your life on 1 broad, who's 99% guaranteed to not be your wife.
A-Unit
