Need help from the greats!

[blank slate]

Alright, well im a junior in highschool and there is this girl that i am interested in and i have a problem that i dont know what to do with next, i hang out with her on the weekends and we just have small talk and blah blah, and one night it was just me and her, and i kissed her, even though we havent gone on a date or anything, so after that i wanted to get to know her better or whatever, but there are alot of other guys after her, and lately i havent really been talking to her on that level to let her know im interested in her, its like after that kiss we started to talk less i just dont want her to lose interest, and this weekend she has a date with someother dude, i would ask her on a date so fast but i dont have a license, so i dont know what to do wait for the outcome or what, totally lost, if you can help me , and if possible guide me

 

[Joe Stud]

hang out with her on wkends? so go to a movie, or a video game arcade. laugh, kino her, tease her when you beat her. treat her like a bratty little sister at first. than later when getting a bite, sit at right angle at a table, and kino some more. invite her over to your house/room to watch a movie. make your move. dont TELL her how you feel, show it. dont bore her by waiting... "make the ho say no".

 

[blank slate]

that all sounds good but thats what other guys have been doing i want to make my self stand out from the crowd just not sure how...i want to leave a lasting impression everytime i talk to her, whether its at school or at a freinds house and im still kinda confused i kissed her than for some reason we started to talk less how would i bounce back without making my intentions obivous( i want to avoid the freind zone at all cost as well!!! might be in it already...)

 

[blank slate]

can anyone help me out?

 

[slaog]

If the rest of the sheep have put her on a pedestal and are drooling over her then you do the opposite.


No harm letting her know (by actions) you find her attractive but you also have to let her know (by actions) that you're the prize.

 

[Iceberg]

that all sounds good but thats what other guys have been doing i want to make my self stand out from the crowd just not sure how...i want to leave a lasting impression everytime i talk to her, whether its at school or at a freinds house and im still kinda confused i kissed her than for some reason we started to talk less how would i bounce back without making my intentions obivous( i want to avoid the freind zone at all cost as well!!! might be in it already...)

The stuff that they said earlier about kino, making her laugh, teasing her...that stuff works. Beyond that, you want to be special, right? You want to stand out from the crowd....Well the only way to give off that impression is to actually become special. There's no magic pickup line that's going to accomplish that for you.

If you feel like all the other guys are already showing her all this attention, then back off a bit. Show her that you're chasing other girls, and that you're out in the world doing other cool things. So, while all the other chumps are holding her hand everyday, kissing her a**...you walk in the room, show her a little attention, and then walk away...leaving her to wonder what's so special about you that you aren't standing in line waiting to be with her, like those other guys.

 

[Joe Stud]

you stand out already, cause most hs juniors who get chicks have cars & jobs. why dont you? at least a license? cmon, get with it

 

[blank slate]

i have a permit but thats all i guess i grew up in the shiittiest era ever to get a car and a job if your young, so i would have to come up with a method that doesnt involve me driving, double date with a freind that drives, then when we get to our destination just split up to get some one on one time with her idk... anymore advice on my original question? it would help alot.

 

[slaog]

i have a permit but thats all i guess i grew up in the shiittiest era ever to get a car and a job if your young, so i would have to come up with a method that doesnt involve me driving, double date with a freind that drives, then when we get to our destination just split up to get some one on one time with her idk... anymore advice on my original question? it would help alot.

Have goals and try to achieve them. Thats in the long term. As for now, don't worry about what you have or havn't. If you can make women feel good they'll want more of it.

 

[slaog]

double

 

[Mantis Toboggan]

i have a permit but thats all i guess i grew up in the shiittiest era ever to get a car and a job if your young, so i would have to come up with a method that doesnt involve me driving, double date with a freind that drives, then when we get to our destination just split up to get some one on one time with her idk... anymore advice on my original question? it would help alot.

There's really not much more advice to give. Seems like you want someone to give you a magic word that's gonna make this chick like you more.

You kissed her once. I've kissed lots of girls once and had it go absolutely nowhere beyond that. Especially in high school, man...chicks will make out with you just because there's nothing good on TV. Reality is, not every girl is gonna like you. Build yourself up into a confident, interesting person and if this chick doesnt like you, 100 others will. Whatever.

 

[DJDamage]

You got oneitis.

Go chase other girls as well as her because if you chase only her you will likely get burned.

 

[blank slate]

its not that i want a magic word, just i dont wanna become just "that other dude" thats trying to get at her. i want her to see me as someone that would and could be more than a friend, just not sure what would be the right move that would help her realize that. what im trying to say is that i want her to be more comfortable around me than any other of those guys without having to talk to her alot and make it obvious what im trying to do, i want her to chase me rather than vice versa, some chicks already do this but im interested in this one at the moument and she wont go for it. HMMMM....

 

[Joe Stud]

I said... get your drivers license as a start. now make an appointment tomorrow. then, borrow a car and call her, take her out.

 

[blank slate]

Would there be any other options, is there anything else i can do to get her to be the one txting and callin me and having her come up to me at lunch and talkin instead of vice versa?

 

[Bobby Rio]

"dont TELL her how you feel, show it. dont bore her by waiting..."

Priceless advice.

If you want her to be all up on you then you have to do what works- create attraction. And you need to be hanging out with her do that.

So yea, ask her to hang out. Don't ask her on a date. Just ask her to come do something with you...

ANd then concentrate on building attraction. Nothing else. Just create attraction and when the time is right-get physical and kiss her.

There is nothing else you need to know.

Don't worry about being different then the other guys. I used to have the same complex... and while i was trying to be original and different- other guys were with the girl i WANTED.

dont make that mistake

 

[Joe Stud]

yes... try this:

hang out with her on wkends? so go to a movie, or a video game arcade. laugh, kino her, tease her when you beat her. treat her like a bratty little sister at first. than later when getting a bite, sit at right angle at a table, and kino some more. invite her over to your house/room to watch a movie. make your move. dont TELL her how you feel, show it. dont bore her by waiting... "make the ho say no".

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