Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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need help from master DJS(highschool)

Zerotwoonenine

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ok i know all the tricks of the trade,but sometimes even i get stuck on simple answers with simple solutions, so i have to ask you master guys perspective on this.
I Was on this girl for a week(last week), then i asked her best friend to help me out, that was a good move. Then found out i made a great DJ impression on her, she is up 2 my standard and i am hers. Then yesterday she found out i liked her, she told her friend who was helping me that she wants to concentrate on her work, her friend told me on the first night that she was looking for a BF, so i think her concentration is BS, i should move on.
So i went to my back up, who is also hot and who also has been flrting with me, but who i didnt pay much attention on, my friend texted me and told me she find me really fit and wants me, so i said that i wants her, but my friend then said shes got a BF.
So what should i do with girl one, should i keep Djing her and talk to her, or should i ignore her completely.
What should i do with girl two?should i keep djing her untill she breaks up with her BF, i am not a guy to break up happy familes, but i really want a girl, and either of them would do.
Please email me if you got a great suggestion because i cant keep checking.
Thanks:eek:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Nothing says you aren't allowed to hang out with them, you could go even as far as to lightly flirt with them, tease and enjoy each other.

Even better, become friends with their boyfriends, that way you eliminate the jealously deal if you both understand you're just being yourself, and not intentionally hitting on her.

Besides, it builds a network of friends...and more girls.
 
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