"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ok i know all the tricks of the trade,but sometimes even i get stuck on simple answers with simple solutions, so i have to ask you master guys perspective on this.
I Was on this girl for a week(last week), then i asked her best friend to help me out, that was a good move. Then found out i made a great DJ impression on her, she is up 2 my standard and i am hers. Then yesterday she found out i liked her, she told her friend who was helping me that she wants to concentrate on her work, her friend told me on the first night that she was looking for a BF, so i think her concentration is BS, i should move on.
So i went to my back up, who is also hot and who also has been flrting with me, but who i didnt pay much attention on, my friend texted me and told me she find me really fit and wants me, so i said that i wants her, but my friend then said shes got a BF.
So what should i do with girl one, should i keep Djing her and talk to her, or should i ignore her completely.
What should i do with girl two?should i keep djing her untill she breaks up with her BF, i am not a guy to break up happy familes, but i really want a girl, and either of them would do.
Please email me if you got a great suggestion because i cant keep checking.
Thanks:eek:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Nothing says you aren't allowed to hang out with them, you could go even as far as to lightly flirt with them, tease and enjoy each other.

Even better, become friends with their boyfriends, that way you eliminate the jealously deal if you both understand you're just being yourself, and not intentionally hitting on her.

Besides, it builds a network of friends...and more girls.
 
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