Need Help From Being Amogged By Male And Female Classmates

[Genesis_The_Great]

I used to be a great amogger and I would amog those people who gave me problems. After a while they would leave me alone, but I noticed that I had gained the reputation of being rude, ****y, and unapproachable. My social circle suffered.
Now I’m trying to radiate a positive, loving, and caring attitude but the people I interact with on a daily basis (youths from mid teens to late teens) take out so much of their angst and frustration on me that It’s getting hard not to succumb to returning the same animosity they’re giving me. To put it simply, I just want to cuss them out.
But I’ve been taught that a man of understanding has an even temper, and I do want to deal with it peacefully. I want protect myself but do so in a positive attitude like Ghandi. The thing is, what I’ve been doing hasn’t been working much and people have been taking advantage of my kindness.
At times I would be able to protect myself but most of the time I end succumbing to their rudeness, or plainly ignoring them. This has caused me a lot of stress and embaressment.
I’m thinking of adapting a stronger frame but I’m clueless on how to do so.

Any advice would be appreciated.

 

[jeffthechef]

say what you feel, do what you need to. But don't do so driven by hate or anger. Ghandi didn't just take it. He did stand up for things he believed in, but he did not use or become compelled by anger/hate.

If you want to respond subtly, that's fine. I'm guessing you just look over and smile or simply not pay any attention. Try for a week or a so, to simply not even pay attention. If the person speaking, calls your name to get your attention pretend to not hear. Then, if he or she tries again, then look and say what. Eventually, they'll realize you don't really care and if others realize you're not contributing with the joke or whatever is going on, they will lose interest., The person trying to get attention will thehn lose interst..Sorry if that doesn't help. Sort of lost as to what you were asking.

 

[Anchorman]

You at this point have 2 options;

1) hang out with new people who respect you

2) if your so called "friends" take their anger out on you, just punch them the fvck out and they'll never talk smack again. Make sure it's a hard punch and aim for the jaw or the nose.

The reason for this is that you have to talk to people in their own language. You wouldnt be talking to a chinese guy in russian, right? He'd just think youre a retard. Well, some people do not understand words. These people have issues and simply cant fathom when a person tries to talk to them and solve problems peacefully. They see your whole "ghandi" approach as weakness and treat it as such. Ignoring them and letting them continue is only going to make them talk even more crap. You have to speak to these people in their own language and the only language they speak is strength. Punching them the fvck out is considered strength and they will understand it.

 

[coolf1r3]

You at this point have 2 options;

1) hang out with new people who respect you

2) if your so called "friends" take their anger out on you, just punch them the fvck out and they'll never talk smack again. Make sure it's a hard punch and aim for the jaw or the nose.

The reason for this is that you have to talk to people in their own language. You wouldnt be talking to a chinese guy in russian, right? He'd just think youre a retard. Well, some people do not understand words. These people have issues and simply cant fathom when a person tries to talk to them and solve problems peacefully. They see your whole "ghandi" approach as weakness and treat it as such. Ignoring them and letting them continue is only going to make them talk even more crap. You have to speak to these people in their own language and the only language they speak is strength. Punching them the fvck out is considered strength and they will understand it.

Yeah, and he'll get hit with a 10 day suspension and possible assault charges.

 

[intrextrovert]

If someone messes with you amog them. If no one gives you ****/they are doing it in a friendly way be cool.

 

[Anchorman]

Yeah, and he'll get hit with a 10 day suspension and possible assault charges.

ooo wow a suspension. Suspensions dont mean **** bro, the only thing matters when you graduate is your grades. And if he's under 18 he most likely will not be facing any charges.

Gotta stand up for yourself. You're told that fighting is wrong and all that, but in the real world sometimes it is the best solution.

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

Man , as you said , you should have stronger frame .
Since you know that these people are amoging you , you should not give a fvck about their opinion .I dont know why this is embarrassing for you . When i get AMOGed now , i just laugh and think to myself , LOL ANOTHER CHODE TRYING TO RAISE HIS LEVEL BY AMOGING ME .

Try to be unaffected and ignore him.When he says something , just laugh and agree with him .

Tell me how he amog's you . I can help you a lot more . I used to study amogging , but now , i just dont need to amog . When you have strong frame , ignorance is the best way .

 

[jeffthechef]

just walk up to them and look em in the eyes
this might incite a fight..but it wasn't you who started it so you won't get that bad of a punishment

but hoenstly..the whole macho man fighting **** is bull****
self-defense is a completely different matter
but if you can be like ali and take all the hits..and get back up and look him in the eyes...that'll impress the ladies..as long as you aren't showing pain

you've seen buddhists set themselves on fire before? in buddhist philosophy you are one with everything so the fire cannot burn you if you are one with it because fire doesn't burn fire

if you can develop that strong of a mental capacity...you can do the ali move..
girls will be impressed by your maturity in not fighting..and your manliness in being able to take it

 

[The Decay of Meaning]

girls will be impressed by your maturity in not fighting..and your manliness in being able to take it

Being beaten up and just standing there?

Who cares if the girls like you stand there being beaten, or not? It's about your self-respect. And even if you care about what girls think, a lot of girls applauded me when I sent a person who bullied me physically, to the hospital. I actually beat him up in front of his whole gang. It's not something I like to do, as I hate violence, but:

1. It's about my sense of self-respect.

2. If I hadn't dealt with it there, it would have continued and spread in both severity and others would have started doing the same.

He bullied me one time and I injured him. And actually, the teachers supported me and expelled HIM for a day because they know I am a good, polite guy.

If someone physically bullies you, 95 percent of the time you got to show him who is the man. This is because, as pointed out above, bullies don't understand words, they understand dominance. And if you don't retaliate the first time, they will escalate the violence.

I was bullied for ten years. Not anymore. What I learned was that if a person bullies you, you take him down. I advice every decent guy out there to take up some martial art.

 

[jeffthechef]

i bet you got all the brain cells beat the **** out of you..cause you didn't understand anything i said..
you know what..fine go get your ass kicked..it really doesn't matter to me

no great man has ever been remembered for fighting without a purpose

if someone can take your self respect by beating you up...you are still a little boy..perhaps 10?
and if girls applauded you for beating someone up...i'm glad you've found someone as immature and ignorant as you