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[macking]

Hi there !
Now there is a girl in my class. She likes me, and I like her too, but it is a problem. I don't know if this is with me or her, but I think she has a "kid" brain Even if she likes me, I think she won't do any move and she will just wait for the "magic" moment. I can't do a move 'cause we didn't tell each other that we like each other ( which I think is better ) and if I call her on a date I think she will refuse. There is a problem in my contry... People think that it's not a good thing to make girlfriend a girl from your class. Things are really mixed up and the last days I am really confused. I really don't know how to start to "make her mine"

 

[ElStud]

Well first of all it's not up to the woman do the move it's up to YOU to do the move. And saying "I can't do the move because we haven't told eachother we like eachother" is just an excuse not to escalate. Besides, whether you've told eachother or not is really irrelavent. Your also setting yourself up for failure with the mindset "if I call for a date she'll refuse", well yeah, if you think she'll refuse, it's more likely that she will. And you've got to stop giving a sh*t about what everyone else thinks. Who cares what the rest of your country thinks? You want to date her, date her. What anyone else thinks should be irrelavent to you. How do you "start to make her" yours? Make a move, escalate. Grow some balls and ask her out on a date. Who cares if she says no, that's all irrelavent, if she says no she says no. There are billions of other girls out there, so you can't obsess too much over one of them rejecting you. But overall, to be truthful though, even if you got in a relationship with this girl, it wouldn't go too well because of your overall negative mindset.

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

Cmon macking . There is no magic moment . You gotta make it .
Get that girl , call her somewhere and do that fvcking move . I know your situation very well . We've talked about this before .

And best advice is THIS.

Call her somewhere and than its all easy . And than you know what to do . I told you 1000000 times .

Respect
Daddy The Pimp

 

[macking]

Thanks for advices, I think I am really ackting like a AFC I'll do the move as soon as i can ... Respect

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

Thanks for advices, I think I am really ackting like a AFC I'll do the move as soon as i can ... Respect

Yes you are acting like every other guy . Waiting for her to come and say to you she wants you .

the only one that can bring opportunities to you is yourself . They never come itself.