Need help fast!!!

[Westwind]

Ok i really am sick of not talking to this girl that i like. She's good lookin and she gives me the look alot but i dont know what to say to her. I only have a real chance to talk to her after class b.c she sits far from me so what would i say to her. I mean i dont want to just run up to a chick and say something stupid. Can anyone tell me what i could say to get her # please.


Thank you

 

[HandyAndy]

go up to her and say " i couldnt help but notice you were CHECKING ME OUT!" sarcasticly....what do you guys think?

 

[kdnash82]

people are always trying to think of witty pickup lines and canned crap to use on females. conversation is not suppose to be hard. if you think she's into you, you could honestly say anything and she'd like it.

i'm gonna tell you exactly what to say. walk up to her get her attention without scaring her, and say

"What's going on?"

She'll reply with a greeting, and from here you have a conversation about absolutely anything. the class you just left from. an upcoming football game. the mystery meat in the cafeteria. ANYTHING.

after the conversation is over with, if all goes well, let her know how nice it was to talk to her. tell her that you'd like to do it again. then ask for her phone number. simple.

you don't have to use these things verbatim. put your own spin to it. make it your own. good luck and let us know how things go.

 

[penkitten]

start with hi and see how it goes.

 

[Westwind]

people are always trying to think of witty pickup lines and canned crap to use on females. conversation is not suppose to be hard. if you think she's into you, you could honestly say anything and she'd like it.

i'm gonna tell you exactly what to say. walk up to her get her attention without scaring her, and say

"What's going on?"

She'll reply with a greeting, and from here you have a conversation about absolutely anything. the class you just left from. an upcoming football game. the mystery meat in the cafeteria. ANYTHING.

after the conversation is over with, if all goes well, let her know how nice it was to talk to her. tell her that you'd like to do it again. then ask for her phone number. simple.

you don't have to use these things verbatim. put your own spin to it. make it your own. good luck and let us know how things go.

Thanks alot, there's alot of good stuff in ur post.

 

[Ace of Flames]

What could you really say that's so "stupid"? I mean, really? You have control of your vocal cords, right?

Just say Hi.

 

[Westwind]

Yeah i wussed out today. During the end of the class i started thinking what to say and stuff. started getting nervous, and i really dont have any time after class to persue someone b.c i have a class right after that. So instead i just went to my locker quick got some books and went to class. I really need a confidence boost.

 

[Ace of Flames]

Is your class assigned seating? If not, then sit next to her.

Also, you could talk to her a little before class.

 

[Westwind]

Is your class assigned seating? If not, then sit next to her.

Also, you could talk to her a little before class.

No but by the time i get there ppl are at the table. And it's the third or fourth week of school, it would be weird to move now. And like i really need to get to know her name b.c dont want to just be in the hall and be like hey....

I dont want to feel like a fool.

 

[kdnash82]

Yeah.... one thing you need when approaching a girl is confidence.

I really mean this. If you walk up to a girl, even if everybody in school has told you that this girl likes you and she's just waiting on you to ask her out, and you approach nervously, she's gonna realize this and her IL will drop immensely.

I've had this problem before. In situations like this, I've literally puffed my chest out, stood tall, grabbed my balls, and approached. If you sit there and try to talk yourself into it, you're gonna fail. Just do it!

really need to get to know her name b.c dont want to just be in the hall and be like hey

Yes you could. You could literally walk up to her and say "hey". Like I said before, you could talk to her about absolutely anything as long as the context fits. What I mean is, you can't go up to her talking about a species of birds you saw on tv yesterday that's starting to become extinct because she won't have any idea what the hell you're talking about and will wonder why you're telling her this crap. Things involved with the two of you are different. School, after school hangouts, plans for college, the cool new snack that doesn't require a spoon to eat during lunch.

 

[Luscious]

You don't have to say anything, really, if she's into you. SHE WANTS YOU. STOP BEING A COWARD.

Walk up to her and say "Hi". She'll say hi. If she wants you, you're INSTANTLY IN ON ANYTHING YOU SAY FROM HERE ON IN AS LONG AS IT'S NOT RAPIST-Y.

 

[Ace of Flames]

And it's the third or fourth week of school, it would be weird to move now.

This.

This right here is the reason you fail.

Weird? Weird to who? Weird compared to what? Why do you give a damn if someone thinks its weird? Is it unusual for people to move?

You're in the Matrix man. You're a sheep, being controlled by the customs of society. DJ's live on their own wave lengths.

Snap out of it.