Need help fast - What to do next?

[josias]

Ok so I apologize if something similar has been posted already
I've been sitting next to this girl on my classroom for about a month now,we get along pretty well and today on our break we went to the back of the school building and kissed. The thing is, this is my first time doing this with someone I see everyday, so I don't really know how to act tomorrow. We'll probably sit together, so what do I do? Do I greet her tomorrow like if nothing had happened? Do I tease her about it? How do I go about getting her to make out with me again on the break?
HALP!
plz
sorry for my english

 

[Purple-Haze]

Ok so I apologize if something similar has been posted already
I've been sitting next to this girl on my classroom for about a month now,we get along pretty well and today on our break we went to the back of the school building and kissed. The thing is, this is my first time doing this with someone I see everyday, so I don't really know how to act tomorrow. We'll probably sit together, so what do I do? Do I greet her tomorrow like if nothing had happened? Do I tease her about it? How do I go about getting her to make out with me again on the break?
HALP!
plz
sorry for my english

One way to go about it (especially if you are shy and have no clue what to say to her) is to look at her throughout the day and smile at her once in a while (maybe wink). She may find it cute and charming (and she'll probably wonder why you haven't talked about it).

Just enjoy the kissing and smile when you two see each other at school. And by smile, I don't mean be stalker-like and leer - I mean, a smirk that is subtle and sexy.

It will probably make her smile right back and think, "what a charmer!"

 

[josias]

One way to go about it (especially if you are shy and have no clue what to say to her) is to look at her throughout the day and smile at her once in a while (maybe wink). She may find it cute and charming (and she'll probably wonder why you haven't talked about it).

Just enjoy the kissing and smile when you two see each other at school. And by smile, I don't mean be stalker-like and leer - I mean, a smirk that is subtle and sexy.

It will probably make her smile right back and think, "what a charmer!"

She was the one that asked me to kiss her today
I wanna do it again, so do I ask her tomorrow? Or do I wait her to ask me again?
thanks man

 

[Purple-Haze]

She was the one that asked me to kiss her today
I wanna do it again, so do I ask her tomorrow? Or do I wait her to ask me again?
thanks man

Don't ask her. You want to up the interest as much as you can (that will result in hotter kissing). I say, let her ask you (which she will if you do nothing but suggestively smile at her). She'll be wondering what's up as you are clearly not ignoring her...just not talking about it.

I say this because if I were her, I wouldn't want you wanting to talk about it and asking me (that would be a turn off personally) - yes I'm a "girl". But if you send her non-verbal cues, that'll only excite her (like she's playing a naughty game with a very sexy guy).

And you don't look desperate or pathetic. So DON'T ask to kiss her.

 

[josias]

Don't ask her. You want to up the interest as much as you can (that will result in hotter kissing). I say, let her ask you (which she will if you do nothing but suggestively smile at her). She'll be wondering what's up as you are clearly not ignoring her...just not talking about it.

I say this because if I were her, I wouldn't want you wanting to talk about it and asking me (that would be a turn off personally) - yes I'm a "girl". But if you send her non-verbal cues, that'll only excite her (like she's playing a naughty game with a very sexy guy).

And you don't look desperate or pathetic. So DON'T ask to kiss her.

Ok thanks
So if she sits right next to me, do I just act normal and tease her the way I've always teased?
Sorry for so many questions lol

 

[Purple-Haze]

Ok thanks
So if she sits right next to me, do I just act normal and tease her the way I've always teased?
Sorry for so many questions lol

Yeah, tease her. Just don't shower her with verbal sentiments or ASk her anything - because you are shifting the power over to her (she'll know you really liked the kissing and the ball is in her court to initiate the next session). You want to keep her on her toes (this will not only capture her interest, it'll increase her attraction).

But do not be ****y either. You want to make her feel attractive BUT also remind her that YOU are pretty damn special (which is why you don't want to be a little puppy and ask her to kiss). By not verbalizing it and by only using your body to show her you're into it, you're signaling to her that you are a confident guy (this gives you many sexy points).

BTW: how old are you two?

 

[josias]

Yeah, tease her. Just don't shower her with verbal sentiments or ASk her anything - because you are shifting the power over to her (she'll know you really liked the kissing and the ball is in her court to initiate the next session). You want to keep her on her toes (this will not only capture her interest, it'll increase her attraction).

But do not be ****y either. You want to make her feel attractive BUT also remind her that YOU are pretty damn special (which is why you don't want to be a little puppy and ask her to kiss). By not verbalizing it and by only using your body to show her you're into it, you're signaling to her that you are a confident guy (this gives you many sexy points).

BTW: how old are you two?

I'm 18 and she's 17, but I've always been a loser with girls so I don't have much experience lol...Imma try and keep her on her toes tomorrow and see if she asks me again
thanks

 

[BlakeW5]

Just play it cool man. You obviously did well enough to get the results that you got so you at some level you know the steps to take. But like Purple Haze said don't ask her, shows too much eagerness. If you do want to be the one to escalate it, don't ask, just take her by the hand and lead her out their.

Either way, when you see her tomorrow keep up what you've been doing... light, playful flirting. Don't treat it like a big deal and you won't overthink it.

 

[Purple-Haze]

I'm 18 and she's 17, but I've always been a loser with girls so I don't have much experience lol...Imma try and keep her on her toes tomorrow and see if she asks me again
thanks

Don't let your previous experiences hinder you from moving forward. Ask yourself why you act like a "loser" with girls and try to learn from it. Plus, you can't be THAT bad - after all, you got your 17 year old classmate to kiss you at the back of the school. Losers can't do that.

Good luck josias!

 

[josias]

Haha thanks both of you guys, I feel a lot more relieved now

 

[schttrj]

the best way according to me:

start off in a very natural way like everyday as if nothing have happened and when u feel she is getting comfortable, start teasing her about it and flirting a bit too. it is what my social intuition tells me.

now i have also found the theory to that. if u start off like that, she will be confused adn u keep her guessing and u increase ur value immensely by leaps and bounds since u show u r so comfortable with those things. also shows maturity on ur part. next, u bring in the fun and the groundwork to take it to the next level by teasing and flirting.