“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Need Help Fast! Girl Problem Part 2

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CoRVeTTe6699

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Ok i have an update for my original post ("Girl Problem")

I did as u guys said and I didnt call her... she left a message on my MSN asking me why i didnt call her...

did i make a mistake? what should my excuse be? what do i do now? plz help i will really appreciate it.


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i got 99 problems and one is about a real b!tch...

iight im a senior n i know freshman girls r kinda young but theres this 1 hottie who i know...

first time i asked her to chill she said Ok, just call me in the morning.. so i call her and she tells me to call be4 i go to pick her up..its gettin annyoing callin her so much but i did call her again and she came up with an excuse..

so ok..i decided to jus 4 get her and **** so i c her in school and all that but then she started talkin to me so i decide to give her another chance...

i get her s/n .... find out she has a bf (she never mentioned it..she broke up with him now ne way)...i dont talk much online to her...

so after like 3-4 weeks after the first time i asked her to chill i call her again today...she never talks that much on the phone (but she never trys to aviod me in school)..i call her and ask her to chill tomorrow... she said OK and to call her tomorrow.. now i know what happened last time.. so i said well r u gonna chill or nott (i didnt wanna sound desperate.. i said it cuz i know what ****s shes gonna pull)... so she said she has to see when shes gonna be home .. thats why she wants me to call..

what would u all do?

what i think im gonna do > forget her and go find a new chick
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Im sorry i posted the same Post 2 times... my I.Explorer froze and I didn't know it sent it the first time!
 
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how long has it been since u called, and since she left the msg on msn ?
 
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what happened was that on friday i called her up and asked her to chill on saturday.. she said ok, but to call her sat. morning ( she did this **** be4 and came up with a gay excuse).. she didnt seem too excited or anything and considering what she did last time i just said fvck it.. and i didnt call her..... then saturday night she left a msg on my MSN saying "why didntu call me"...

i have a feeling if i DID call her she still wouldnt havehung out
 
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So why not ****ing call and see if she would hang out? Because so many people told you not to call?

Start making your own damn decisions dude, and you won't come off as an ignorant, desperate chump.
Do what the hell you wanna do, and you don't need help "Fast!" and you should be your own damn help.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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This problem goes deeper than this girl making up excuses. How can I explain this?

You should have enough going on in your life that you don't need to hang out with her badly enough to call her three times over the course of a day to try and set up one date. If she's being flaky about making plans, tell her that you like to know what you're doing beforehand and if she can't make it you'll go out with so and so, who actually suggested that you two do something (feel free to lie to women, they will do it to you).

If she says that she'd love to go out with you, but you should call her in the morning to remind her, tell her to write herself a note and assume that she will show up. It isn't your job to be her wake up guy, that job is reserved for losers.

She's hot, right? But if she's flaking on you why are you even bothering? The idea is that there are enough girls in the world that you don't need to focus on just one. I'm not attractive, I'm just clean and funny. I get my fair share of puss. Why? It's a numbers game, mate. If 99 women reject you, 1 woman will lay you.

If she keeps flaking on you, take her off of your buddy list and cut her out of your life. Don't be rude to her, don't be mean to her, just don't pay attention to her. Why do you want to bother?

Finally, here comes the answer to your question: If she asks you why you didn't call her, tell her that you were out with friends. Or, tell her you were out with "Katie". If she asks who Katie is, tell her she's a new friend you met at a party. Don't tell her you were home playing Warcraft on the computer or mast.urbating in the bathroom.

The sooner you learn to lie to women, the more success you'll have.
 
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