"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Need Help Fast! Girl Problem Part 2

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CoRVeTTe6699

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Ok i have an update for my original post ("Girl Problem")

I did as u guys said and I didnt call her... she left a message on my MSN asking me why i didnt call her...

did i make a mistake? what should my excuse be? what do i do now? plz help i will really appreciate it.


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i got 99 problems and one is about a real b!tch...

iight im a senior n i know freshman girls r kinda young but theres this 1 hottie who i know...

first time i asked her to chill she said Ok, just call me in the morning.. so i call her and she tells me to call be4 i go to pick her up..its gettin annyoing callin her so much but i did call her again and she came up with an excuse..

so ok..i decided to jus 4 get her and **** so i c her in school and all that but then she started talkin to me so i decide to give her another chance...

i get her s/n .... find out she has a bf (she never mentioned it..she broke up with him now ne way)...i dont talk much online to her...

so after like 3-4 weeks after the first time i asked her to chill i call her again today...she never talks that much on the phone (but she never trys to aviod me in school)..i call her and ask her to chill tomorrow... she said OK and to call her tomorrow.. now i know what happened last time.. so i said well r u gonna chill or nott (i didnt wanna sound desperate.. i said it cuz i know what ****s shes gonna pull)... so she said she has to see when shes gonna be home .. thats why she wants me to call..

what would u all do?

what i think im gonna do > forget her and go find a new chick
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Im sorry i posted the same Post 2 times... my I.Explorer froze and I didn't know it sent it the first time!
 
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how long has it been since u called, and since she left the msg on msn ?
 
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what happened was that on friday i called her up and asked her to chill on saturday.. she said ok, but to call her sat. morning ( she did this **** be4 and came up with a gay excuse).. she didnt seem too excited or anything and considering what she did last time i just said fvck it.. and i didnt call her..... then saturday night she left a msg on my MSN saying "why didntu call me"...

i have a feeling if i DID call her she still wouldnt havehung out
 
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So why not ****ing call and see if she would hang out? Because so many people told you not to call?

Start making your own damn decisions dude, and you won't come off as an ignorant, desperate chump.
Do what the hell you wanna do, and you don't need help "Fast!" and you should be your own damn help.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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This problem goes deeper than this girl making up excuses. How can I explain this?

You should have enough going on in your life that you don't need to hang out with her badly enough to call her three times over the course of a day to try and set up one date. If she's being flaky about making plans, tell her that you like to know what you're doing beforehand and if she can't make it you'll go out with so and so, who actually suggested that you two do something (feel free to lie to women, they will do it to you).

If she says that she'd love to go out with you, but you should call her in the morning to remind her, tell her to write herself a note and assume that she will show up. It isn't your job to be her wake up guy, that job is reserved for losers.

She's hot, right? But if she's flaking on you why are you even bothering? The idea is that there are enough girls in the world that you don't need to focus on just one. I'm not attractive, I'm just clean and funny. I get my fair share of puss. Why? It's a numbers game, mate. If 99 women reject you, 1 woman will lay you.

If she keeps flaking on you, take her off of your buddy list and cut her out of your life. Don't be rude to her, don't be mean to her, just don't pay attention to her. Why do you want to bother?

Finally, here comes the answer to your question: If she asks you why you didn't call her, tell her that you were out with friends. Or, tell her you were out with "Katie". If she asks who Katie is, tell her she's a new friend you met at a party. Don't tell her you were home playing Warcraft on the computer or mast.urbating in the bathroom.

The sooner you learn to lie to women, the more success you'll have.
 
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